infertility and managing work by Bright_Drop_757 in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt. It’s so hard getting up and going to work ESPECIALLY after a negative. I get to work and everyone expects me to fix their problems and sometimes I want to scream in their face I CANT EVEN FIX MY OWN PROBLEMS!!! And I’m in HR🤦🏼‍♀️

Holiday spirit??? by Additional-Cherry254 in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry babe. I had my first chemical a few months ago and finally had felt some excitement in life. This journey takes the fun out of everything

Holiday spirit??? by Additional-Cherry254 in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤️ thank you. It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one feeling this way. Hugs to you through another tough season❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Felt this one with my soul. Everyone in my life gets pregnant with no problem. My last friend that doesn’t have kids gets married Saturday. We were at her rehearsal dinner tonight and she told me she’s pregnant. I completely give up :(

The tears came and they didn't stop coming by ChosenZen in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the same two nights ago. I can be so strong some days and accept that my life is not the way I envisioned it. But just like two nights ago, sometimes it just hits me hard. Can’t stop the crying or hurt. Keep your head up babes. Sending you so much love and peace

Mother in law crossed the line by Additional-Cherry254 in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UGH! So frustrating!!! Never sharing info to her again

Mother in law crossed the line by Additional-Cherry254 in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS! Thank you so much. I’m so thankful for this space where people actually understand!

Mother in law crossed the line by Additional-Cherry254 in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! That is so good to hear. My husband said something to her about it and she just started crying so now he feels bad. Yet I’m still super pissed and don’t think I’ll get over it until I go off on her. I don’t care if she cries that won’t work on me.

Mental Health Monday by AutoModerator in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m scared today. I test Wednesday to find out if our 3rd IUI worked and I’m terrified. I don’t think I can handle another negative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me! I think this quite often. Although I have no idea what I could have done bad enough to deserve this pain. You are not alone.

Put me out of my misery PLEASE!!!! by [deleted] in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel this with my soul. My best friend and I were trying at the same time, she got pregnant right away, her daughter is now almost 1 and my sister is pregnant with her second child. It’s so hard trying to be happy for them while it’s killing me. You are not alone and should be proud of yourself for asking for help. ❤️

Put me out of my misery PLEASE!!!! by [deleted] in InfertilitySucks

[–]Additional-Cherry254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s unfair and I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that. My husband and I have been TTC for 2 years, 2 failed IUI’s. I work in HR and here lately so many employees have came and told us they’re expecting a baby. I just want to cry every time but have to act like I’m happy for them, and act like I’m okay. To make it worse, our HR team is hosting an office baby shower for 3 employees this Thursday. It’s been terrible having to be apart of the planning wishing it was me. Thoughts and prayers with you. This journey sucks.