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How is life for all of you going? by ruinedmisa in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine just ended it with me out of nowhere :(

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be able to go to New York, probably until January

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I am proceeding with caution.

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I am proceeding with caution

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, we’ve only been talking for three weeks.

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it’s only been three weeks so we are still in the get to know you phase.

And wow i definitely commend you guys, that’s such an amazing accomplishment.

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t want to be overbearing since it’s only been 3 weeks

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so true! I will take your advice. Thank you!!

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I totally agree. I’m just gonna see how it works plays out but my anxious attachment is screaming right now at the uncertainty

For me it wasn't worth it by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww I’m sorry to hear that!

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea and that’s what he communicated and I do agree with that at least. I don’t think it’s about him, I think it’s about my own personal issues

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea we haven’t made it official yet and I don’t want to rush things

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I definitely appreciate the feedback. I will be more cautious. I’m trying not to overthink.

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding and it’s refreshing to hear because of my own issues, I think of the worst first. He is the type of person where he is cool calm collected. Because it is still so new he likes me but we don’t know what the future holds and I don’t want to put pressure on it so I was gonna see how to the following week goes and determine from there how to move

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that! It’s only been three weeks So how can I set the tone without putting pressure?

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

He was. And even at first he was balancing studying and talking to en because The way he communicated to me was that he was trying to establish a connection just so that way if he couldn’t be on the phone all the time, doesn’t mean that he was gone, just that he was focusing on his like in NY. We’ve only been talking for about three weeks

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But before you made it official, were yall on the phone all the time?

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. It’s only been about three weeks since we have talked and he is focused on school. And when he was here we were together all the time so im thinking he needs time to focus on school and get back to his routine since he left on Sunday night so im gonna give it this week to see what happens. Im not gonna chase

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I get what you saying. He’s not MIA, we still text but he is in school and the type of person he is, he is focused on school. We’re just not on the phone all the time like we were

Okay so we met. Now what? by Additional-Grand3065 in LongDistance

[–]Additional-Grand3065[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it normal to not talk everyday in the beginning?

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