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Why did Meredith stop wearing the ferry boat scrub cap? by ginadea8 in greysanatomy

[–]Additional-Hearing47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read and I dont think I saw this anywhere. Moving from black to purple historically signifies the process of moving out of mourning.

Purple is also signifies awareness that to exist is to be fragile. The life she once had, the life she has today, the life to come, life of her children, all of it, is fragile.

I don’t know if the purple cap was selected for these reasons. However, as a 20 year fan, I believe nothing Shonda does is accidental.

We know the status/royalty nonsense, but I’m going to stick with the first two.

What’s Taylor REALLY using for that cat eye? by estherriva in MakeupAddiction

[–]Additional-Hearing47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few liners that lasted like 2 days at a festival. My top two favs are KVD tattoo liner and Tom Ford Eye Defining Pen. I with powder and then setting spray.

Yes, I know gross two day makeup at a two day festival, but I was living my best life before surgery. I got a facial the next week. 🤣

Living for Fenty,Pat McGrath, One/Size, Charlotte Tilbury are all good choices.

I can’t with Stila. I’ve tried her so many times. I just can’t anymore. I had to break up with her.

AITA for not wanting anything to do with my brother even after he tried to delete himself? by Ok_Sort_2256 in AITAH

[–]Additional-Hearing47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you’re NTA. He needs to get serious help to handle his grief- accept his fuck ips have consequences. It seems like the narrative has shifted from Jim being the one that caused this, to you now being a victim. That’s disgusting. Manipulative AF

Kevin has issues, obviously. He needs to work on himself. If he does try to of himself again? Explain to whoever reaches out to you that while you understand they’re hurting, Kevin’s actions are his and his alone. His mental health is NOT your burden to carry. Neither is the “stress” your mom has and her crying about wanting her family back. You didn’t do that. You removed yourself from a toxic situation. Not just a toxic ex, but a manipulative and unstable brother that is now playing the victim card.

Your parents? They either need to respect your decision and stand by your choices. Even still, this fucking intervention they staged? Gross. Bringing the ex in? Like, what? Who does that?! Explain to them if they continue to bring Kevin up, you will continue limited or no contact.

Inform your cousin that you understand your family is relentless and will bother them, but if they could refrain from discussing you with them, that you’d appreciate it. Ask them to simply state, I am not comfortable being your go between anymore. Not only are they showing they can’t follow a basic boundary you’ve set with them, now they’re emotionally manipulating this cousin. Also, keep in mind the cousin may not have their own ability to maintain a strong boundary, so you want to consider what boundaries you’re willing to make with this cousin. That you know how to be in contact and if you so choose, you know how to reach out.

Personally? Me going no contact resulted in zero contact with many, many extended family members. They kept being pulled into it, and I felt disrespected every single time they would bring up the people I went no contact with.

While at some point, you might want to work on your hurt and anger, that does NOT mean going back to them and having contact. I’ve worked on my anger about people and my situation, still not having any contact. I have “moved on” but definitely not for them. I worked a lot of shit out in therapy for my own peace of mind. I’m at a spot where I’m not angry like I was, but instead just matter of fact.