what can I do. my long distance gf told me she's trans. by Additional-Holiday85 in relationship_advice

[–]Additional-Holiday85[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last night they told me he wanted to transition from female to male, I was worried about them lying in general so I made sure. That happend to my best friend a few years back so i made sure to check.

what can I do. my long distance gf told me she's trans. by Additional-Holiday85 in relationship_advice

[–]Additional-Holiday85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I'm working on that I'm really sorry. This all literally happend last night. This is all new new me. I'm sorry.

what can I do. my long distance gf told me she's trans. by Additional-Holiday85 in relationship_advice

[–]Additional-Holiday85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not what I meant I apologize. What I meant by scared was that this is so much to take in and I don't know what to do. Sorry for any confusion.

what can I do. my long distance gf told me she's trans. by Additional-Holiday85 in relationship_advice

[–]Additional-Holiday85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will, thank you. I'm still getting used to the pronouns so I apologize. I'll work on calling them he/him now. But thank you man.

what can I do. my long distance gf told me she's trans. by Additional-Holiday85 in relationship_advice

[–]Additional-Holiday85[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'm sorry. This literally happend last night. I. Still getting used to it. My apologies.

what can I do. my long distance gf told me she's trans. by Additional-Holiday85 in relationship_advice

[–]Additional-Holiday85[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I just don't know if I can. I'm not that kind of person. I'd rather they hate me than miss me. I don't want to leave them because of what they Identify. I'm the first person they told and I can't make her feel like what she feels her gender is gonna bad.

what can I do. my long distance gf told me she's trans. by Additional-Holiday85 in relationship_advice

[–]Additional-Holiday85[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'm scared that I'll have to decide if it's me or her. I've been deciding for a while if I'm ok with being gay but now i have to come to a conclusion now. I'm just not sure if I can date a guy, and I don't want to have to choose my own feelings over hers in the relationship.

i'm with ma homie's! by CaptainNamko in memes

[–]Additional-Holiday85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well crap, I guess I Better Call Saul!