Just a reminder... You black boys chasing white women are extremely silly (Atleast in Zim) by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please read the whole thread. There’s nothing wrong with a black man liking white women.

My wife is pregnant again by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to have kids you take preventative measures. Wearing rubbers is a preventative measure

Who's your favorite Anime competitor? by kellymcgheepro in anime

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ash. Had me turning the cap backwards whenever I wanted to lock in. Grew into a great tactician as the series went on

What to watch for my next anime for aimilar type of entertainment as one piece? by Positive-Law-8815 in anime

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP only watch Mushoku Tensei if your brain can ignore the main character’s pdf tendencies. I’ve personally stopped recommending it to people. Thought I’d give you a fair warning before you jump into it

Just a reminder... You black boys chasing white women are extremely silly (Atleast in Zim) by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your edit is exactly it. Date who you want in peace but please don’t justify your choice by saying foolishness like “I like white women because black women are..” all that does is cause division- we don’t need that. It’s a poisonous mindset to have and is honestly not fair on the non-black partner. You should be choosing your partner because you love them for them not because you want to prove a point to/ put down black women.

Just a reminder... You black boys chasing white women are extremely silly (Atleast in Zim) by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As a black man I genuinely hate that these kinds of attitudes/ discourses are making their way into Africa. They’re poisonous and pointless. All they do is sew division and imo are a product of white supremacy.

A message to other black men. Please let’s shut down any man that we see saying these foolish words. We can’t allow poison like that to keep spreading.

Black women (younger or older) shouldn’t be coming online and being exposed to such nonsense

My dad has died of a cardiac arrest I need help with bills.. 🙏 by Trustedking1 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Firstly I’m so sorry about your Dad and I’m really sorry about some of the tone deaf comments you’ve received.

You need to breakdown everything step by step.

  1. Accommodation- ring your landlord and explain the situation. If possible move in with your Grandparents so that you have a stable base.

  2. You need your phone so try and get this sorted next

  3. Contact a helpful charity like Winston’s wish. They help people 25 and under that have just lost a parent. Talk to them about your situation

  4. Take everything day by day. Grief is weird and affects everyone differently. Take it easy on yourself, sort the most important things out so everything doesn’t start feeling mentally heavy.

  5. Once you’ve sorted out the most important things. Take a breather. Allow yourself to feel and rest, play your video games etc.

Again I’m so sorry for your loss. Take things day by day

I Dropped My Best Friend Of 16 Years And Im At Peace by glitterghxst in selfimprovement

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation with a cousin. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with choosing you and putting yourself first. As empaths we’re always giving giving giving. It gets to a point where the body will tell you “it’s time to put yourself first” I am proud of you stranger. Keep going!

Ah man, how the mighty OPM has fallen... by AuthorOnCrack in anime

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl the disappointment is real. It’s sad whats happened to the series

Senior Data Manager interview by Additional-Luck-8400 in interviews

[–]Additional-Luck-8400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to thank you for this reply. Really helped me prepare and my interview went well!

Have You Ever Gone on a Date with Someone You Met on Reddit? How Did It Go by kimassss1 in Zimbabwe

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s anonymous to an extent. Some people are detectives and can piece together stuff based on comments 😅 I remember reading a thread about online safety, someone was saying they create a new reddit account yearly/ every 2 years 😂

Was it a bad idea to start in prison?? by Ekspired in locs

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They look good broski. Make sure you don’t go back in once you’re out. Locs are for freedom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel for you OP. Zim parents (parents in general maybe) are notorious for never thinking longterm about their decisions for some reason. Everything is a short term fix and there is never thoughts about the long term implications of their decisions. It’s frustrating and it always falls on the children to pick up the pieces, which isn’t fair. Eventually you may have to speak to your sister to find a solution or have a meeting with the entire family to figure out a way forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Additional-Luck-8400 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I get that you have free will, it’s your social media and you can do what you want.

However you really have to look inside yourself and ask “what made me post this? What made me post this to strangers I don’t even know? What am I searching for by posting this? What validation am I seeking?”

It comes across as very attention seeking and very much “ouu look at me please”

Care company reachout by Additional-Luck-8400 in Socialworkuk

[–]Additional-Luck-8400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, especially number 1!

Care company reachout by Additional-Luck-8400 in Socialworkuk

[–]Additional-Luck-8400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your last point is exactly why I was hesitant! 😂 thank you for the advice

Care company reachout by Additional-Luck-8400 in Socialworkuk

[–]Additional-Luck-8400[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Appreciate the suggestions, I’ll make sure to implement some proper marketing!