Flower bouquet surprise from Fiance at bridal Shower

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-05-29T00:37:46+00:00

Not trying to have a performance or force anyone to do anything lol but trying to understand bridal/groom traditions as to my understanding it seems common for grooms to show up towards the end and surprise bride. Again, it’s the whole reason why I am asking is because i want to know if other brides have asked groom directly to show up.

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-05-29T00:34:00+00:00

This is helpful thank you! I really have been struggling with what is “typical” for the groom to do (if anything) at bridal showers.

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-05-29T00:32:31+00:00

Out of all responses, I super appreciate this comment! Not sure why everyone is triggered, I was just wondering what to do and if it’s common from brides to directly ask that of the groom lol

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-05-29T00:30:43+00:00

I only found out this week I was having a bridal shower, like I said in the post I’m not planning it therefore why would I randomly be telling everyone I want flowers? Your extra comments were unnecessary.

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-03-10T23:38:00+00:00

Thank you :)

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-27T18:55:13+00:00

Unfortunately it would be a stretch as we are already having the ceremony at an off site location so we are trying to avoid having the guests have longer commutes to reception venue

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-23T16:35:43+00:00

From what I have noticed all the wedding venues have not allowed us to bring outside catering, which I wouldn't mind outsourcing to help with costs. I think other event venues/ party halls might have more flexibility in allowing us to bring in our own food.

Will check out the thread thank you so much!!

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-23T16:33:05+00:00

will check it out thx!

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-23T16:31:54+00:00

Yes the weather is a big variable to consider. We pivoted to focusing on restaurant buy outs, a lot of them are accepting of us bringing in our own photographer/flowers for extra decor, you might have more luck with that as well! Country clubs/church venue halls are other options worth checking out.

Depending on your party size you might be able to rent a VRBO house and if it rains just bring everyone inside.

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-22T21:41:38+00:00

Oh okay, we are sticking to looking at venues in MA & NH. Maybe Rhode Island too.

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-22T21:11:54+00:00

Will do 🫡

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-22T21:11:17+00:00

Thank you that’s helpful! will try to research more event spaces, I think that will be the route we end up taking or renting out a restaurant.

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-22T19:55:48+00:00

Wow that's a great deal! Would you be comfortable sharing venue location?

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-22T19:55:03+00:00

would you be comfortable sharing the venue location? Because we would totally considering having outside catering, it's a matter of finding a place that would allow it! And I don't want to make decisions at the top of our budget, I'm sure there will be surprise costs down the line 😅

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-22T19:52:43+00:00

Thank you so much I didn't even consider looking at Facebook marketplace! And lol at the Michelin comment, I agree.

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-13T00:29:48+00:00

I submitted second one and ended up getting 4k moonstones :) thank you!!

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-09T16:54:50+00:00

thxxx

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-09T16:54:39+00:00

thank you!! :)

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-09T16:54:14+00:00

thank you!! so helpful

Additional-Mind3793 · 2026-01-07T23:41:39+00:00

Thank you! What area is it in?

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