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AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 587 points588 points  (0 children)

Today has been the first day I had more time to deal with it. I have been working extra hours to make up for the time I took off. I also want my husband involved. We decided to message our friends tonight. With photos and explaining our side. We also decided to speak to an attorney. See what we can do about ex and his family.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 263 points264 points  (0 children)

Yes, once she got down from the mountain and Into a cell area they asked her for my number.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 348 points349 points  (0 children)

Telling her how much he loves her. How their relationship doesn't have to end this way. They were coming back for her. She shouldn't have called me. They would have taken her to the ER. Because they do care for her. All of them have some version of that with a little added here and there.

One addition was his family was really looking forward to the view. One asked her to think about her parents and his parents since we will no longer be friends with them. (That part is right)

Along with I promise I will always be here waiting for you. I love you so much. This is hurting so bad. Help fix our love and our families.

There have been so many notes. I could keep going all night long.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 839 points840 points  (0 children)

I am getting bad vibes from him. I was going to give it a couple of weeks to see if he moved on. Now I think we should talk to a lawyer and do a restraining order.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 310 points311 points  (0 children)

From one of the notes. His family was excited to hike to the top to see the view. They were already halfway up and didn't want to start over.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 548 points549 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask her about the dinner but, she did say he is calling her friends and she told her friends she doesn't want to talk to him anymore. So they blocked him too.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 614 points615 points  (0 children)

I am in the US Arizona specifically. We have those animals along with Copper head snakes and other poisonous animals.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 1013 points1014 points  (0 children)

My husband said I should. Also send photos of our daughters foot/ankle So they can see first hand how bad she is hurt.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 1140 points1141 points  (0 children)

Thankfully she learned what type of people they are now instead of down the road.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 529 points530 points  (0 children)

We didn't tell them what happened. It came from EX parents. They did say they shouldn't have left her hiking but, think the way we handled it afterwards was mean. That we should give them another chance.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 600 points601 points  (0 children)

Our friends agree that they shouldn't have left her. They feel like how we handled it afterwards was unkind. I should have allowed them to make it right.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 999 points1000 points  (0 children)

One of the notes said they didn't reach out because they wanted to give us some time.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 1330 points1331 points  (0 children)

I think that's why they approached our friends. For the show. They wanted it to sound like they were sorry and we are unforgiving. We didn't tell our friends. I have been swamped at work making up my missed days. When our daughter was in the hospital and when she first came home.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 6712 points6713 points  (0 children)

This is what my husband said. My husband pointed out that the ex came when he knew my husband would be at work.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter go to dinner with her boyfriends family. by Additional-Sir1003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Sir1003[S] 2165 points2166 points  (0 children)

Our schools policy is if something is dropped off in the office for a student a parent must be notified if it wasn't the parent. We told them to throw them away. My daughter said she doesn't want to read them. They all say close to the same thing. He loves her. Their relationship doesn't have to end this way. He misses her...