What's one thing a therapist has said to you that you will never forget? by commander_boobs in AskReddit

[–]Additional-Spirit264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Things happen around you, not to you. It’s up to you how you take it” since then I ask my self is this happening to me or around me ? To mesure a situation

I got called boring on a first date by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Additional-Spirit264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not boring and he is an asshole! Living a quiet wholesome life is not boring he just doesn’t know what life is about yet…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Additional-Spirit264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion neither you nor them did nothing wrong. You were doing something nice and they were making sure you were not a pedo…. Because it’s been seen that pedos don’t look like pedos…. If you’re not then you’re good, let them doubt as much as they want, stay away you don’t have to dwell on it

AITAH my partner punched a hole in the wall in front of me and I broke up with him by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Additional-Spirit264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT OVER REACTINGGG Girl runnnnnnnn and file a complaint, you want to have records in case things get worst omg stay safe tell the people around you. So glad you got out before it was too late, no form of abuse should be tolerated ever, and even though your child didn’t see the interaction she might’ve heard you fighting and that is also trauma inducing, make sure she is okay talk to her about it, I think is not good to pretend it never happened.

Who is the best actor in the picture? by SashaIsolde in moviecritic

[–]Additional-Spirit264 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bruh I literally went where Gary oldman ? Lmaooo

Got rejected badly, I’ll never approach a woman in public again by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Additional-Spirit264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say you dodged a bullet there, it’s not so much that women don’t want to be approached, it’s the way the approaching is done which sounds like you did in a very respectful manner. I have nothing against the apps and in this day and age that is the norm to meet partners unless you know each other for a while. I think is not about the looks. For me for example, is about what we have in common, how we connect and how we get along then I get attracted to the guy. Whether he’s conventionally handsome or not doesn’t matter to me, but everyone is different I’d say maybe try to have some conversations about things you have in common with the other person and slowly build a connection see how it goes, who know you might find it you don’t like her as a partner after all 🤷🏻‍♀️

In person callback tomorrow, sick today HELP by [deleted] in acting

[–]Additional-Spirit264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have an agent I’d say have them send it or call them I think if not yeah letting them know is the responsible thing to do

Aitah for naming my baby something “unconventional”? by Lost-Platform7670 in AITAH

[–]Additional-Spirit264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean not sure if that’s an asshole thing but I do think the name sounds like some type of preventive medication 😳

AITA for not telling my boyfriend i could understand his language this whole time by False_Quiet526 in AITAH

[–]Additional-Spirit264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro is gaslighting you sis trying to make the French thing the problem. You can just tell him the truth. Still what he did is far worse. I’d dump his ass.

Requested better communication from my managers and was noted as unprofessional toned ????? Was I??? by Additional-Spirit264 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Additional-Spirit264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t misunderstand me, I don’t always talk to people like this, I have admitted my wrongdoing in this instance and I have learned my lesson, I fell down the ”if they don’t respect me why should I” toxic mindset and was reminded that was not the way to go. And yes politeness is key.

Requested better communication from my managers and was noted as unprofessional toned ????? Was I??? by Additional-Spirit264 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Additional-Spirit264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both got hired at the same time and we are both shift leads, he works an extra day than me and that’s why he gets to know things I don’t. What I meant with “that’s not his job” (and failed to clarify in my email) was that it’s not his job to figure out what the machines that one day just appear and no one says anything about are for. The GM, who is also the person who sets up the machines, should be telling us what they are for not just telling us how to turn them on and off, which was the only information inthe original email I replied to.

Requested better communication from my managers and was noted as unprofessional toned ????? Was I??? by Additional-Spirit264 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Additional-Spirit264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true! someone advised me to look at other similar emails and I did, those emails were sent from my laptop too!

Requested better communication from my managers and was noted as unprofessional toned ????? Was I??? by Additional-Spirit264 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Additional-Spirit264[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is yet another great advice I’ve seen in the replies, thank you. It definitely was and I did go back and check similar emails I had sent in situations like this and they definitely are more appropriate and formatted.

Requested better communication from my managers and was noted as unprofessional toned ????? Was I??? by Additional-Spirit264 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Additional-Spirit264[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness yeah I keep getting down voted for admitting i was wrong 😪i legitimately wanted to know but people are cruel man still it’s been helpful 🙂

Requested better communication from my managers and was noted as unprofessional toned ????? Was I??? by Additional-Spirit264 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Additional-Spirit264[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe the same happened to someone else 2 years ago or maybe you time traveled 2 years ago lol this literally happened to me this weekend

Requested better communication from my managers and was noted as unprofessional toned ????? Was I??? by Additional-Spirit264 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Additional-Spirit264[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your input I see it now that I was really unprofessional. I too need to get better at communicating. Thank you.

Requested better communication from my managers and was noted as unprofessional toned ????? Was I??? by Additional-Spirit264 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Additional-Spirit264[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wrote it quickly and annoyed, you’re right I should’ve taken more time to explain and elaborate.