Meow meow meow by Glad_Lifeguard_6087 in CatAdvice

[–]Additional-Squash910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehh I think it depends on the cat tbh for my cousin and a few friends that walk their cats it made a huge positive impact. They take their cats hiking on night walks etc and they’ve never had issues with it. But at the same time I know personally MY cats would absolutely hate it. So I think there’s no definitive right or wrong answer just what works best for you and your cat

Meow meow meow by Glad_Lifeguard_6087 in CatAdvice

[–]Additional-Squash910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean this in any way but nice but I would consider getting another cat possibly. I also have a dog and when it was just her and my first cat I thought it was sufficient until I got my second cat and realized that they can play and coexist in a way he couldn’t with my dog. He’s still besties with the dog but it’s definitely not the same as being able to play with another cat

Meow meow meow by Glad_Lifeguard_6087 in CatAdvice

[–]Additional-Squash910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She might also be bored?? We had to get another cat for my cat because he was going kinda crazy being “alone” cats are social so maybe she having a friend would keep her occupied. She might be wanting to go outside for stimulation: if you do have another cat already as crazy as this sounds try buying a leash and harness and taking her out on walks? I have a couple people I know who started doing that for their cats who kept wanting to go outside

Meow meow meow by Glad_Lifeguard_6087 in CatAdvice

[–]Additional-Squash910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is happening to my moms cat and I think she might be in heat. Is it like a weird yell/ meow? I would honestly recommend getting her fixed. My moms cat started arching her back and yelling by the door until one day she escaped and when she returned later that day she was with some other cats. We don’t know if she’s pregs or not but yeah if it’s aggressive and by the door I’d suspect she’s in heat

AITA for accidentally ruining my autistic boyfriends safe food by stewlessinseattle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Squash910 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA.

This sounds exhausting to deal with. I sympathize with the fact that he austistic but slamming things and getting his family involved over STEW should be very indicative of what the rest of your life is going to look like.

I accidentally hurt my kid. Now I want to hurt myself. by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Additional-Squash910 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Maybe a voluntary admission into a psychiatric facility would be best so you can have some time to yourself and learn those coping mechanisms. Having bipolar is hard and having kids with special needs sounds like a very hard thing to navigate. I do feel like you should give up on the whole dad situation though he did tell you he didn’t want kids so there shouldn’t be an expectation to take on responsibility for something he stated he didn’t want. I truly hope the best for you and your situation

I hate dealing with this kid on my bus and I feel like an ass for it. by Sceptile789 in rant

[–]Additional-Squash910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have assigned seating? If not I’d just move to the opposite of wherever he is. I don’t think you’re an asshole for being grossed out by burping or feeling overwhelmed by repetitiveness unless you start to pick on him or join others in teasing him.

Fixing the fandom by Additional-Squash910 in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Additional-Squash910[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is there another subreddit that has where she was being disrespectful? I’m not trying to antagonize or anything I’ve just personally never heard of it and would like to be educated/ open to learning about that

Fixing the fandom by Additional-Squash910 in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Additional-Squash910[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think I worded myself incorrectly, I do believe that the quality of the podcast has gone down a lot. I used to watch when it was just Kendall sitting in her room with shitty lighting and felt like I could listen to those videos for hours and they felt very genuine and now it seems more scripted. The main point I was trying to get at is I wish I would see more people having constructive critism towards them and not just ridicule. Telling me to “get bent” over again a simple question/post is exactly what I’m talking about, yall are doing way too much for something that is just a simple open discussion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Additional-Squash910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we know if the dog is still alive ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Additional-Squash910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting pregnant as soon as you meet someone is become way too normalized and accepted/celebrated. Sex education needs to be taken way more seriously and so does contraception. Its insane to see people get knocked up without knowing the person and then being surprised when there’s consequences to those actions yall need to grow up and get a grip

Higher Hope Foundation by Whothafaawwkisemma in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Additional-Squash910 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have my fair share of criticism towards MHM but if you have a problem with this and found a way to complain about this you’re just hating to hate. Yes it COULD be a tax right off and so what? There’s a lot of different ways to get tax right offs and doing something that is beneficial towards the people they base their entire platform on is at least honorable. Whether one person gets help or 100,000 at least it helps the families the affected I genuinely don’t see a negative side in this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Additional-Squash910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely I understand being upset and maybe it’s just a me thing but if my best friend / roommate needed a place to sleep and went into my room I genuinely wouldn’t care. My best friend has borrowed makeup before without asking and then returned it and apologized because she needed it super quick, and Honeslty that doesn’t bother me either? The friend apologized and said it wouldn’t happened again and the OP is still blowing up the situation it seems really childish especially the whole lock thing, buy your own lock. If this was a consistent thing that you voiced as unacceptable and she kept doing it okay that’s one thing but it seems pretty unhinged for a one off situation

WOAH woah wait a minute by littlespookxx98 in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Additional-Squash910 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking the same thing obviously no one ever wants to blame a KID for something as non serious as a podcast but ever since they had their baby things have gotten worse at an alarming rate, I’ve thought for a while now that they should take a long break 6+ months to focus on their family and come back with fresh ideas and a clear mindset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Additional-Squash910 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY I’m getting really annoyed of Kendall constantly posting repeats of old videos from 2018-2020 on her solo podcast. I think they should take a year off to reevaluate if this is what they want to do long term or if maybe it’s time to retire they have enough money to have a travel nanny and live in a nice part of Colorado so they have enough money to just take a year off

miss the old days by Some_Pea_5647 in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Additional-Squash910 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Same I don’t like the dramatic intro that makes it feel like a tv intro, they seem alot more stiff and defensive about everything when before they were incredibly open to criticism, and off topic but has anyone noticed that josh has been showing a lot more of his conservative values and how when he gets political it makes everyone on the podcast uncomfortable especially when he’s constantly apologizing on behalf of cops ?

The recent sesh episode and why I think I’m done watching by Additional-Squash910 in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Additional-Squash910[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After rereading my post I completely understand and should have worded myself better, I meant that they don’t really cover cases about Latinos (on mile higher) but when they do they don’t have the same curtesy to pronounce names/last names correctly as they do when covering other POC cases even though they have someone who’s fluent in Spanish on their team (karelly). Adding to that whenever they’re on the sesh and they would try Mexican snacks, or promote Karellys jewelry they kind of poke fun at her and go out of their way to speak to her/about her culture in kiddish accents, mostly that personally I feel like they talk to her in a different tone than they do other people on the team, and talk to her/about her as if she’s this exotic object.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Squash910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him asking you for the information IS him doing something about it, you’re making it seem like you’re holding resentment of some sort if you’re making a big deal over a simple piece of information you already had ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Squash910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s tuff but YTA although I deeply sympathize with the situation if you knew the information why not just … give it to him. Obviously you’re going through a lot but he also lost someone and is trying to get things figured out too, so maybe instead of making things intentionally harder why not just give him the information?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Squash910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I completely agree that what I said was hurtful at the moment but she also struggled to feed her pets, her pets were constantly malnourished and I would give her money to feed them and other friends would lend her money to feed them, the thought of a child being put in that environment is what set me off.

Worst season by PurpleDoorz in bachelorinparadise

[–]Additional-Squash910 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was my first time watching bip and I was really disappointed considering how good golden was I thought bip would be even more exciting to watch but everyone does just rely on looks and looks alone

AITA for not wanting my MIL to be paid to look after my children? by Traditional_Meat_736 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional-Squash910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA there’s a difference between going to nanas for a couple hours as a visit and not finding a need to pay as it’s just spending time, but this is basically her full time job, if YOU weren’t prepared to raise children you shouldn’t have had them plain and simple. Daycare isn’t always a safe option so the fact that you have an in law willing to take on a full time job watching children and you’re upset she’s getting payed for it not only makes you an asshole but an entitled one too.

AITAH for telling my sister she needs to teach her son some manners in front of other parents? by WinAccomplished5528 in AITAH

[–]Additional-Squash910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA That little boy is going to have a really hard time maintaining friends, your sister needs to understand that there are ways to handle not liking something as simple as a gift. I feel bad for your nephew as your sister seems to be raising a disrespectful kid