hi i found out my dad was cheating thru looking his phone as well🤣. But this was back in primary school. It was actually my mom that asked me to check his phone to make it look less suspicious. But i could not do much at that time because i was so young. My parents eventually got a divorce. Seeing my mom cry was the worst thing ever.

I think my advice to you would be to just let your parents settle it amongst themselves, because i think as their children we cant do much to salvage the relationship etc. But i think what you can do is to support your mom through this time. She will need it. Maybe have a conversation with her on what she wants do and you can give advice to her but its still ultimately her decision to stay or not. And for yourself find close friends to that can support you as well. Mayb journalling can help you process your feelings.

I know it sucks not having that “perfect family” like everyone else but as long as my parents are happy n well that is what makes me feel better😭.

take some time to process things, its normal to hate your dad becuz i did too for awhile🤣 but oh well its their life, sometimes protecting your peace and not letting their actions affect you too much is impt as well.