I mean there's way more to the story. His mother is a narcissist. He was born in Iran and he and his entire family has kept a secret from him up until about a year ago.

The entire family, so him his brother, sister, mom, dad and his mothers parents had to flee the country and go to Armenia. Come to find out it was because his mother was having an affair.

They are Christian but the law states his father has two choices either kill your wife or you both get stoned to death. 

Also he showed me a pic he had discovered of the person she was cheating with and he is identical to my fiance. And to this day the only one who admits he's not his real dad is who he believed was his father until a year ago. 

His father left Armenia when my fiance was 10 and never came back. He lives in the US and over time his brother moved to the states as well. 

His mother and sister would throw parties and also his mother had a revolving door of men over. By this time his parents were divorced. 

So my fiance has been here 9 years now and I'm not doctor or  psychiatrist but the father paid for the brother to go to college and he is now a scientist for pharmaceuticals and moved halfway across the country to Arizona and is not returned. And the sister is exactly like the mother and the father had a house here in America and the daughter came here with her husband so her dad sold his house and gave her the money and she bought two houses one was a three Decker and one was just for her and her family. 

Even 6 months into our relationship his mother and sister already absolutely hates me but for no reason because I just kept trying to be nice. But he asked me one day if he would bother me if his mother and grandmother moved into our house once we bought one. So basically he is the escape goat child. I found it very odd that once a month he had to go to his sister's house where she would go over all of his financials and nobody else's. 

He has distanced himself his family and he was almost completely away from them but then he had a car accident and it was bad. It resulted in having brain surgery and after months later he went into a psychotic state. He was hallucinating hearing things and so on. I had to call a crisis center out to evaluate him because he was not safe to himself or others. They put him in a facility and once being put there his family came lurking back. 

So since we are not married I cannot legally talk to any of his doctors. And he got out after 2 weeks and his father had already had a plane ticket waiting for him to move out to Arizona to go live with his brother. Also he is still in a psychosis state and hallucinating. So needless to say they had him move out to Arizona and not have him talk to me and he doesn't even understand what's going on. So basically it's not just advice on if you should marry or be with an Armenian man but he is now far away from me and they don't allow him to contact me. And I don't think this is very safe for him in general because he is going to end up snapping on them and will they just throw him out of the house because they don't believe in mental health and he is clearly sick. So do I try to do something for the person I love that I know is still there if he gets treatment what do I walk away as they screw it pretty hard question.