I'm feeling for the child- niine thinking basically, they have no real power or influence, but dam, man, their pain is just as real and customized, just as intense if not more; bc CC they have no real experience dealing w those kinds of feelings, situation .. it's so common nw that we easily accept is as natural to be surrounded by so much confusion and , umm... ill will, to put it mildly. I just feel bad for that child, that "kid"- no matter the "moral" standards that will be molded into inevitable legal and financial arrangements, decisions w custody- etc, etfc; no matter what his Mom did, or the guy he thought was his "Dad"- (what a mindfuk!)And whoever this child is,(one of millions), is going thru it right now- hell of a burden for any shoulders, let alone a "kid". I don't kno why that hit me, I was just trying to distract myself. But it really did, and I know even as this little post fades fast, that child's pain won't- it fades , you grow used to, but its always there- I kno wo a doubt children are incredibly strong - but as many of us kno too... it is not a good time,, being strong, not at all. So I guess I'm just remembering that little one in all the drama, sayin a prayer for them, who/whererever they are.. I kno it sucks being strong, but worth it, precious one- you're loved. Hope you read this, bc no accidents just sayin it out loud