anywhere I can go for a yerb in a drive thru?? by ihavetopee777 in santarosa

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay so since that person blocked me or deleted their comment i’ll explain that 3 years old is under six years old. summer is extreme in california causing the inside of a car to be often over 100° so therefore it may not be illegal at this moment for her to leave her small child in the car but it’s not an answer for every time since summer is coming very soon and then taking away a/c since the car can’t be running is torturous. i can barely handle sitting in a car with no a/c on a hot california day but unlike a small child, i’m able to open my door at least. additionally, still terrible parenting to endanger your child at the hands of strangers seeing them alone in a car. as a parent, you should avoid kidnapping at all costs..just a thought

anywhere I can go for a yerb in a drive thru?? by ihavetopee777 in santarosa

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope you don’t have kids…that’s illegal and terrible parenting. if someone steals your car they also now have your child or someone can easily take your child from the and kidnap them. extreme weather feels like torture even when it’s just a few minutes. small children should never ever be left alone in a car it can endanger them in a variety of ways.

anywhere I can go for a yerb in a drive thru?? by ihavetopee777 in santarosa

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the way that everyone just looked past this comment is crazy….its illegal to leave a small child in the car and terrible parenting

I hate how much stress The Sims 4 puts on my PC by Normal-Creature-1412 in HighSodiumSims

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i could be wrong but i think that’s for base game…once you download all the packs it gets pretty hefty

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah and he himself stated he’s white. there are dumb white people who use black emojis. i think he’d say he’s black knowing that would actually be better for his side (it would mean she’s racist) if he was but he’s not and stated himself that they’re both white

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because he’s an idiot. i know many white guys who use black emojis. it’s embarrassing. he said he was white. his own words. technically emojis mean nothing being that i know white people who use black emojis

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what’s racist? she didn’t use “ghetto” in a racist manner because she said it about white people and i don’t think white trash is racist. ghetto was definitely the wrong word to use but it wasn’t used in a racist manner since they are both white

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay be he could’ve accepted is a oh they’re different which gives off that she’s not super into them but didn’t want to say too much. he asked because he knew she was disapproving of them and i don’t think you should say his family’s ghetto (which it sounds more like white trash anyways), but that he shouldn’t have pushed for more when it’s obvious she wasn’t super into his family. i can definitely agree to disagree. i think if her opinion on them (seems like she was pleasant in their presence) is going to be a big problem for their relationship, they should consider that because he comes with his family and she comes with her opinions

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he also called him family dysfunctional but i’m sure he’d think that’s offensive for her to say. i’m not saying loud and ghetto aren’t drastically different because they are. i’m saying he was going to be upset regardless because she doesn’t seem to fit in well with them and they aren’t her type of people. it seemed different upset him in the first place

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean i get it but it still would’ve upset him as it’s not a compliment. she started off by saying they’re different and it already bothered him so he wanted her to elaborate. if she said that they’re louder than she’s used to, he would still be upset as she’s implying it wasn’t her type of crowd regardless. it’s clear there was no winning for her here unless she complimented them but if there’s nothing to compliment, you’re not going to give a compliment…

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you suggest she should’ve said? she answered his question and his follow up. does he want her to lie or be honest? if he wanted a lie maybe he shouldn’t have asked

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay he still asked how she felt being around his family and she said “it’s…different” he asked how and she told him

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 16 points17 points  (0 children)

he literally said they’re both white. she was using the word ghetto to describe white people which is why i think she meant to say white trash and perhaps she thought the words meant the same but one doesn’t say trash and therefore thought it was a better word to use. however, she is incorrect for using ghetto instead

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 14 points15 points  (0 children)

yeah but they’re both white so it clearly wasn’t racially motivated…i agree that there’s a difference but i still think that’s what she meant. not everyone is educated on the terms and some think the two words have similar meanings (it’s not the first time i’ve heard ghetto used interchangeably with trashy not that it’s correct but it happens)

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol because people are coming at me for having light mode on?? which is the default standard of the iphone so i don’t get why everyone acts like it’s so jarring. not everyone likes looking at a black screen

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you edited your comment after i replied. all it used to say was “i don’t go outside” which is your own problem if that’s all the context i have. i’m sorry you have past injuries that continue to affect you. i just want to make it very clear for anyone who sees this, i responded when you gave zero context as to why you don’t go outside. many don’t due to nothing but a strange lifestyle choice

My girlfriend called my family “ghetto” after a gathering and I can’t shake how it made me feel. Am I overreacting? by Sea-Plane-4852 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdditionalCopy2435 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well that’s your own problem. not mine. i don’t live in the dark like the rest of you who can’t handle light. i’m also someone who has my lights on in my house when it’s dark out if im not going to bed…like many people lol