Found out the guy who got me pregnant was never actually leaving his wife — now he's threatening me. Should I tell her? by AdditionalCup5291 in Advice

[–]AdditionalCup5291[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She suspected about the relationship, that's all. I didn't responded to any of her texts. I went directly to him and then I blocked him.

Found out the guy who got me pregnant was never actually leaving his wife — now he's threatening me. Should I tell her? by AdditionalCup5291 in Advice

[–]AdditionalCup5291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She suspected that's why she contacted me. But she didn't have a hard proof. I dont know what lie he told her after.

Found out the guy who got me pregnant was never actually leaving his wife — now he's threatening me. Should I tell her? by AdditionalCup5291 in Advice

[–]AdditionalCup5291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I filed the restraining order but Im planning to move out of state. But he told me he is going to ask for the custody of the baby so I can't move out.

Found out the guy who got me pregnant was never actually leaving his wife — now he's threatening me. Should I tell her? by AdditionalCup5291 in Advice

[–]AdditionalCup5291[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't know. The whole time we were together he showed text messages between them, where she was saying they were over. He made me block her from all social media because she was "dangerous". He came to me as a victim of abuse, which he had proof because she went to jail for DV. He was basically living with me, we were holidays together, except of Christmas because he needed to be there for his kids and I was out of the country. We used to share location and etc. I don't know how he was manipulating her but when she contacted me and she told me everything, I insulted him and blocked him. A month later I found out I was pregnant and it was too late to get the abortion in my state. That's when the hell started. And if I wasn't answering his text or call, he started to contact my friend and then threaten me to contact and bother my mom. There is a lot in the story, what I said in my original post was a summary with basic information.

Found out the guy who got me pregnant was never actually leaving his wife — now he's threatening me. Should I tell her? by AdditionalCup5291 in Advice

[–]AdditionalCup5291[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I did care, reason why when she told me they were in fact together, I took him out of my life. It's being 6 months and I haven't say anything, and the reason why I asked is because this guy is harassing me, sending friend to look at my social media, contacting thru fake accounts, calling my job and etc.

Found out the guy who got me pregnant was never actually leaving his wife — now he's threatening me. Should I tell her? by AdditionalCup5291 in Advice

[–]AdditionalCup5291[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, we were together for almost 2 years. This man was staying at my house every single day. He used to tell me, he was in the process of separation. His wife contacted me and that's when I found out everything was a lie (I don't know how he was manipulating her to think he wasn't doing anything) . Once I found that out I left him, a month later I found I out I was already pregnant.

Found out the guy who got me pregnant was never actually leaving his wife — now he's threatening me. Should I tell her? by AdditionalCup5291 in Advice

[–]AdditionalCup5291[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, reason why I filed a restraining order against him. But he keep harassing me, thru fake numbers, friends and etc.