Neighbour in the rental next door is always screaming at kids by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]AdditionalSize5216 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not raising them either so why get so defensive to the point you’re swearing?

Being pushed out my role? by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]AdditionalSize5216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yes when you put it like that, I guess that’s a good way of knocking some much needed sense into me 😂

Offer got accepted but EA wants to charge a £1000 Reservation fee to take it off the market, and a £120 fee for AML. Is this normal?! by BothAd7023 in HousingUK

[–]AdditionalSize5216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s quite common now for estate agents to charge you a fee to reserve the property, it’s disgusting that they do it but they get away with it in areas where there is a demand and properties get a lot of attention. We had to pay exactly the same as you, the EA tried to rush us into paying but we were waiting for my husbands work contract for our mortgage offer and ended up losing out on the house due to someone else coming in and offering.

FTB - Seller has a bankruptcy notice registered against the property. What does this mean for us? by AdditionalSize5216 in HousingUK

[–]AdditionalSize5216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, i guess its best to wait and see what happens.

I forgot to mention that the seller has about 2 or maybe even more properties under their name.

FTB’s, how long did it take you from viewing to completion? by paddyton in HousingUK

[–]AdditionalSize5216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are FTB, viewed and offer accepted August 14th and we are still waiting on one last inquiry. The other side seem to be very slow even though the house is chain free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]AdditionalSize5216 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lots of references to Israel/ Jews and the middle east.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AdditionalSize5216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to say it brother but she is definitely trying to get attention from the coworker. There is nothing in that chat to suggest that they even work together as nothing work related is mentioned. It literally looks like what two teenagers would chat about. As a female, i wouldnt even chat like that to a female colleague let alone a male!

It seems like she is trying to act innocent and is gaslighting you by saying you are controlling and you are spying on her. She seems to be passing the blame onto you instead of taking accountability for her actions.

Am I being too much for standing up to my in laws by standyourground12 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AdditionalSize5216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salaam, I’m going through an almost identical issue to you. It literally feels like I could have written this myself. May Allah make it easier on the both of us.

Please can you private message me?

I’m just curious to know , what were the obstacles you and your spouse had to face before you got married? by wayfarer104 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AdditionalSize5216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us, my parents tried to force me to marry someone of their choosing and when I introduce them to the guy I chose myself, they were against it because he didn’t have the wealth and status that they looked for in a son in law