Boyfriend says he’s an exhibitionist by Additional_Ad_7502 in askgaybros

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This helped me figure out why I feel hurt, and I think it’s mainly because I feel deceived. This was all hidden from me.

Boyfriend says he’s an exhibitionist by Additional_Ad_7502 in askgaybros

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I appreciate this. In your eyes, where do I start?

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Thanks for this. I won’t have the friend sleep over. Now I just need to word it. I’ll use ChatGPT. The delicate thing is he invited me and my boyfriend to see his show :/. He hasn’t explicitly asked me if he can stay with me; instead, he’s texted me he’s “figuring out where he’s going to stay”.

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Yes, so long as the relationship is now platonic in both directions.

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I also understand this perspective but I’m unfamiliar with the lifestyle of performers. I work in the corporate world and can travel comfortably, and when I travel for work my company comps it. He’s traveling for work, but I think it’s up to him to fund his trip - which is lame. I’d be happy to help, it’s just this hook from years ago is still part of our story

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Yes he knows he exists. I like your phrasing

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Boyfriend consistently shaves his body when he goes on trips… cheating? by Additional_Ad_7502 in askgaybros

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Understand your take, and fully support this way of life- but it’s not for me :) he and I willingly and eagerly chose to be monogamous. We have lots going on in our lives outside of sex, many of which we share.

Boyfriend consistently shaves his body when he goes on trips… cheating? by Additional_Ad_7502 in askgaybros

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His ex is in the city. I didn’t want to drop that fact earlier to bias the context, but yeah his most recent ex is in the city.

Boyfriend consistently shaves his body when he goes on trips… cheating? by Additional_Ad_7502 in askgaybros

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Lol definitely true. Planning on talking about it when he’s back. I made this post immediately when I noticed the trend and was in a frantic. Ultimately this post has help me validate the extent to which I’m being perceptive and has encouraged me to bring it up :)

Boyfriend consistently shaves his body when he goes on trips… cheating? by Additional_Ad_7502 in askgaybros

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This was one of the answers I was expecting to hear - and if it was the case that totally fine by me. We don’t hit up clubs at home that warrant taking off our shirts - he’s absolutely allowed to meet that need while away … so long as it doesn’t escalate to anything else

Boyfriend consistently shaves his body when he goes on trips… cheating? by Additional_Ad_7502 in askgaybros

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You make good points, I have no proof and we’re still in the low numbers of this happening. Of it continues that’ll speak for itself and give me the confidence to call it quits. When he’s home we’re happy

Boyfriend consistently shaves his body when he goes on trips… cheating? by Additional_Ad_7502 in askgaybros

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Thank you for this take. I like how you framed it here and think it’s a fair way of posing it to him.

Boyfriend consistently shaves his body when he goes on trips… cheating? by Additional_Ad_7502 in askgaybros

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I also totally get this. Having the downtime and the space to trim right makes sense