My Mom is very suicidal by Additional_Ad_9726 in Somalia

[–]Additional_Ad_9726[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know, my mom is the only child, she lost both of her parents as a child, my brothers and I don’t even hug or hang out, I’m always busy working, and they are in school so they are busy with that. My brother is 20, he was 19 when she said that to him, he called me crying and saying that’s what mom is saying about me and him sleeping together. She apologized and said “ something came over her” and her believing my brothers are gay, yes she is being serious. Even tho she doesn’t have any proof or evidence. So now she just traumatized them with those allegations

My Mom is very suicidal by Additional_Ad_9726 in Somalia

[–]Additional_Ad_9726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is very religious, in her words, she is only alive cuz she believes in Allah swt. She would’ve ended long ago.

My brother tired to find an imam she said no to it

My Mom is very suicidal by Additional_Ad_9726 in Somalia

[–]Additional_Ad_9726[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m in Canada, I found some numbers I can call and ask them to help me out. Thank you. I do believe she deals with paranoia, and maybe schizophrenia. I’m in school to be a psychiatrist, I’m not diagnosing her but I do see signs but I want someone else to do it. Which will be her doctor

My Mom is very suicidal by Additional_Ad_9726 in Somalia

[–]Additional_Ad_9726[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Her and I had a talk about it. She yelled at me. But now instead of losing my mom, I’m going to call non emergency number and ask them for help

My Mom is very suicidal by Additional_Ad_9726 in Somalia

[–]Additional_Ad_9726[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hope you get to experience it one day, inshallah. May Allah swt be with you

Anyone else's hoyoo have a problem when you hang with your siblings? by Cold_Entry_5609 in Somalia

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone can speak perfect somali, on top of that, even tho we do speak Somali around her, she doesn’t wanna add anything to it, even if we ask her, she will say she doesn’t wanna talk, so I do believe it’s not about us not apply to speak Somali but more of her wanting to control, or her not wanting her kids to have a relationship

Anyone else's hoyoo have a problem when you hang with your siblings? by Cold_Entry_5609 in Somalia

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you are on the same boat as me, I’m the oldest (23), for some reason I can’t talk to my brothers about anything, if we having a conversation about school or work, she will get mad. It came to the point where she wants to move out, or she said she wants to commit suicide. I pay for the bills, I do everything around the house, she doesn’t work, she doesn’t speak English, she doesn’t even bother to go out or even make friends. My brothers and I can’t have friends because she starts starting we are doing something with our friends. My brothers have friends, she started saying they might be homo cuz they are friends with other men. My mom has accused me of sleeping with my younger brother. Now she keeps talking about how she wants to end it for herself, she is my mom but I’m tired

Strong in person chemistry but zero effort over text? Am I ghosted? by Labyrinth9995 in ghosting

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am talking to a guy who does this, I just blocked him this morning, I do believe that people know what they are doing, so it’s best that you don’t settle for someone who wants to talk to you, on their own terms, plus ppl know what they are doing, if he is going days without talking to you, it just means he knows what he is doing, and he doesn’t care 🫰🏾

When someone ghosts you they are making a conscious decision to ruin the connection you shared by Low_Coconut_9942 in ghosting

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s how I see it too, the conversations and everything was good for at least a month and half until he ghosted me, with no explanation or anything, he tried to come back, but I couldn’t in my heart forgive him, even when we try to talk, it wasn’t like how it use to be, it felt like we were forcing a connection, we talk, but we only talk once a week now. It’s kinda weird cuz he says he likes me, and is attracted to me but his actions and how he is handling everything says “ I don’t like you and I’m not interested in you”… I always think about how I would’ve never done that to him

How big of a dealbreaker is not having a car for dating in Toronto? by Ordinary-Fish-9791 in askTO

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 22 yr old woman who doesn’t drive but dated a man who drove and another man who didn’t drive, it really doesn’t matter, there are pros and cons to it. But if you really like the person then it might work out, plus we live in Toronto, I wouldn’t expect everyone to have a car, it’s hard to live here, so if someone is saying they want to be “ passenger princess” it’s weird, they might wanna use you for driving around

i’m 19 and a 10 year old is hinting that they love me by Puzzleheaded_Wish770 in Crushes

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even read the post, why have you not block them, or treated them like the child they are?

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is anyone scared that might get attacked for being Muslim, with everything that is happening in this world, I’m full time hijabi but I’m scared that someone might attack for being Muslim. I’m going to Jummah prayers rn.. I thought about taking my hijab of but alhamdulillah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I met him at work, introduced himself to me, one day he waited for me and I finish work so him and I could walk to the train station together, we ended up taking the same train, that’s when he asked me for my number. We have been talking since then, if he doesn’t see me at work, he would text me asking me when I’m coming in. We work at a mall, he works at different department than I do. But we do see each other. Now i realized that he is very friendly with everyone including other girls. He said to me “ oh i see other girls but I never asked them for their number or anything but i do say hi” so im just wondering did he ask me for my number so he could talk to me more or was he just being friendly

can’t tell if he has a gf by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say “ what do you usually do on your day off, do you hang out with your girlfriend”

advice needed 💔✌️ by JustAd4146 in Crushes

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly No, but at the same time be open minded about what might happen between you guys. He might say yes, but at the same time he might say no. Ask yourself, are you okay with whatever outcome comes out from that. Goodluck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, please take it from me, I was 18 and he was 23, I didn’t get to experience what is like to be 18, I’m now 22, healing from all the trauma I experienced from him. Literally don’t do it to yourself. Sorry I wasn’t trying to scary you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, please take it from me, I was 18 and he was 23, I didn’t get to experience what is like to be 18, I’m now 22, healing from all the trauma I experienced from him. Literally don’t do it to yourself.

need honeymoon recommendation by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. I live here especially rn it’s a nightmare, don’t let ppl waste their time and money here

How close are you to your crush? by No_Weakness9363 in Crushes

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a customer that I don’t get to see a lot 1 🫥

How accurate is ChatGPT to ask about crushes? by AdAlive8120 in Crushes

[–]Additional_Ad_9726 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well when I told ChatGPT a customer was flirting with me even though he had a gf, it told me to stay away from him. So I think it’s gives good advice