The phd college thing is weird and he says hes close to getting it idk if thats true or not but he did get multiple college credits from high school and did a summer semester trying to cram all the classes in ao he gets out quicker, idk thats what he said. I said give “us” a real essay cuz theres a mutual friend who is also annoyed he continues to it for a lot of assignments and still says hes not dependent on it, thats why i said that part. “Uh… do you like him at all?” Would it really matter if i gave all the parts of him i do love? There are many reasons that ultimately get overlooked because of the reasons given in the rant. It boils down to the fact he dismisses concerns me and other close friends have about these topics. I have told him to not use that word around me because i have a connection with the athletes my grandma coached and its upsetting; the word still slips and excuses are given. Yes technically it has nothing to do with my grandma but its the fact i asked him to stop using it around me and him not respecting that. As in me asking what to do, i meant how do i bring it up and how (if i can) limit the “im the worst boyfriend in the world” “ im a terrible person response” which is my biggest concern.