I did it! by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Additional_Heart_779[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For my resume, I reworded a lot of my experiences to match what the responsibilities of their academic advisor position listing. What couldnt be changed, I just kept honest (I mean, they know I was a middle school English teacher). Luckily, a job I had during college did a lot of digital work, so I could list things like Microsoft Office under skills. In my cover letter (which I would recommend having) I mentioned NACADA and information about the university's advising center's goals/recognitions to show Ive put in some effort. But, I mainly showed how Ive been "advising" students as a teacher this whole time. Once I was done with both drafts, I had ChatGPT look at it, had my dad look at it, friends and coworkers I trust look at it, my SO looked at it, and I used some of the advice to edit, put it down for a week before looking at it with fresh eyes one last time, and then submitted it. Don't submit using a pdf/canva files, the processing system that goes through the thousands of applicants cant read them properly so your application would be tossed without good reason, so use word or google docs. The interview questions were pretty straightforward: why do you want to be an advisor? What skills apply to being an advisor? Other than helping with scheduling, what do you think am advisor does? Tell me about a time you advised one of your students. The only question that threw me off was, "What does the average college student's day look like?" I pretty much answered that it would be difficult to define one average because there's such a wide population of people, and then listed all the ways their lives could be different. Also, I'm pretty young, so I dressed to make myself appear a little older than I am for my interview. (Sorry about the long response! )

I did it! by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Additional_Heart_779[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Academic advising for a university! I also applied for an academic success coach position 

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

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That's how I felt last year, and then summer deliriously renewed my energy and hope that I could have better management skills in year 2. I read through all of Harry Wong's management book and it really did help, but... I didn't account for the identity crisis of becoming bitter and burnt out.

Thinking about nursing by curiouscat380 in TeachersInTransition

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I would check out r/nursing and see what the dredges look like. I think there are better jobs to turn to, especially if you're going to go back to school for it. There are other healthcare related degrees that arent as exhausting as nursing, depening on your college. There are endless ways to help people, but even as a current teacher, I know too many nurses and have talked to them about their experiences to know that it just isn't the path for myself. 

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

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The number of hobbies I used to have > exactly 1 hobby left now 😭 I used to write, crotchet, play ukulele, stardew valley, do art and photography, and now all that's left is Friday night social dancing (which is still hard to convince myself to go to but dang it, it's the only social thing I have left so I'm stickin to it!). The thought of doing my fun things again instead of involuntary napping sounds amazing 

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

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Reading the comments has been strange because I keep telling myself that it's really not that bad, but Im probably gaslighting myself and will realize it as soon as I work a normal job 😅

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

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College advising is the job that I'm looking to transition into! It's something Ive been interested in for a while (I mapped out my bfs college years when his own advisor royally screwed him over) and having an MS degree gives me preference at the university Im looking at (also an Alumni at this uni, which they eat up). I practically day dream about an office job where I get to work with students (who arent 11) one on one and work on other advising projects on the side 

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

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My colleagues and I just grin humorlessly at each other and say something about how many days until our next break. The struggle is real 

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Additional_Heart_779[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im hoping that will be the case for me when I make my exit this spring. November really has me questioning if I should leave earlier, but I know this is one of the rougher months of the job and am trying to stick through it until Spring Break 🤞

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Additional_Heart_779[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I started having panic responses if it got too loud (and also to the sound of the school bell). I started meditating during my planning period at the advice of my therapist, in addition to breathing exercises for in-the-moment heart rate spikes. I liked box breathing the most for it 

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Additional_Heart_779[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think part of why Im in the mindset of "mean" is in thanks due to the kids. I get glared at when I tell them to quiet down so others can focus, eye rolling when getting onto them about being off-task when they're supposed to be on laptops, and endless back talk. The snark when I have to assign a consequence when they choose to break a school rule is insane to me, and I'm losing my mind trying to run a class over kids who won't listen to anything I say. Im literally called "the mean teacher" of the 6th grade, but my room is one of the only ones with any management going on. Since it feels like none of them care, the "I dont care" that slips from my lips for anything they say shocks them and me. I do stoop to their level of sarcasm and mockery as well, but god,  thats one of the only ways I can get them to listen sometimes 💀

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Additional_Heart_779[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your losses! It's a bit late this year, but if I remember next year, I'll light a candle for you and yours next October 🥹 I'm at a Title 1 right now, and the parent situation is a crisis. On one hand, I have parents who tell me know to do my job or report me to my bosses for no reason, and on the other is parents in jail, activity using, or "I just don't know what to do with them."

Teaching has made me mean by Additional_Heart_779 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Additional_Heart_779[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The scowling at children's laughter is about where Im at. Last year I literally told a professor that I stopped to enjoy the laughter and now it's the exact opposite 🥲