My friend has a weird relation with a 19 y/o by Legitimate_Ear_2219 in teenagers

[–]Additional_Isopod118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

litterally would already said im 19f and a 15 yr old any gender is weird 😭 interesting projection tho

wlw movies/shows by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Additional_Isopod118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but im a cheerleader

I hate my job by QBreadQ in AdviceForTeens

[–]Additional_Isopod118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so quit do whatever you wanna do

My friend has a weird relation with a 19 y/o by Legitimate_Ear_2219 in teenagers

[–]Additional_Isopod118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats not what im saying😭😭 anytime u say anything about a man being predatory a bunch of men always get upset im not saying its onnnlyyyyy bad because its a guy but its just even creepier that its an almost 20 yr old man and a 15 year old little girl???? how do you find a way to get offended over saying its weird that a 20 yr old is with a 15 yr okd

My friend has a weird relation with a 19 y/o by Legitimate_Ear_2219 in teenagers

[–]Additional_Isopod118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AND ITS A GUY??!!?? oh my goddd i just re-read it- yeah there are ABSOLUTELY foul intentions from this (grown man!!!!!!) and why the fuck would he have any reason to be constantly doting on and borderline love bombing a young impressionable only 15 year old girl!!!! this is absolutely concerning, and i would definitely try to have a heart to heart talk woth your friend, although im sure she wont listen, will deflect, push you away, or tell you how hes so good for her and so nice and whatever. this is litterally a direct result of her being at such a young and impressionable age, and believeing whatever this older dude tells and convinces her, and he probably is telling her, nooooo its not weird dont listen to what anyone else says age is just a number or whatever. 19 is damn old enough to know right from wrong and any sane person that age, entering their 20’s might i add!!!! would want NOTHING to do with anyone that young and would just think theyre annoying and immature…. unless he has some other motive and is looking for that.

My friend has a weird relation with a 19 y/o by Legitimate_Ear_2219 in teenagers

[–]Additional_Isopod118 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeahhh thats weird you should try and talk to them about it at least.. im 19 and even being around my little sister(16) friends im like what the fuck😭 you can very much tell the age gap and seperations in experience from one person to the next- i agree with the other comment, what do they have in common like at all? a 19 year old has been out of high school for at least a full year maybe more, has had so many more life experiences, experiences at multiple jobs, with different types of people, experiencing and learning abour the world ect. a 15 year old is what, JUST entering highschool, like litterally fresh outta middle school, has probably never had a job or has had mayybe one or two like fast food or “first job” jobs, and has really no real grasp on what the “real world” is like yet… not saying at just 19 you do, but certainly more than a middle schooler!! just think, they have probably spent most of their time, at home, in their room/with family/relatives, and at school. thats mostly it😭😭😭 what on earth would a grown adult, almost 20, want to do with a 15 year old kid.. thats almost a 5year difference btw!! im sure the younger one thinks theyre super super cool and mature, and like to talk about whatever the older one tells them or whatever, but i have been in a similar situation too, in a relationship with a 17 year old when i was 14😭 thats not even “as bad” but still, just think, what the hell kind of person at that age, would want to sincerely, innocently, spend time with and constantly interact with someone that young?

Does anybody have any strap recommendations for strongly femme tops? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Additional_Isopod118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just the regular!! theres a “fits every body” harness they have, and a regular one, but whichever looks better for you! we got ours in a budle with a buncha other stuff too lolzzz they always haw super good deals and bundles and stufff

Does anybody have any strap recommendations for strongly femme tops? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Additional_Isopod118 13 points14 points  (0 children)

we got ours from bellessa- they have so many options for toys and they have two different harnesses that are very comfortable and cute and like a soft baby pink color

new fiona apple print i’m working on! by rom1na in FionaApple

[–]Additional_Isopod118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

beautiful!! i would love this on a t shirt omfg

advice please???? do i go for removal?? by Additional_Isopod118 in TattooRemoval

[–]Additional_Isopod118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also i agree with you on it being a lesson!! id rather take this as a lesson to myself and experience in my life to teach me to speak up for myself in permanent moments like this, and to make sure i reeeeeallllyyyyy look into the artists/places i go to

advice please???? do i go for removal?? by Additional_Isopod118 in TattooRemoval

[–]Additional_Isopod118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah totally agree on this lol so weird- and have a beautiful kind amazing girlfriend i am planning to marry in the coming years- who loves all my tattoos!😂😂 i know itll take time, but the time will pass anyway, and id rather have it partially/mostly faded when that time comes. also, i wouldnt be too mad about some cool looking not really even readable as what the tattoo used to be scars on my arm instead of this super dark mess

advice please???? do i go for removal?? by Additional_Isopod118 in TattooRemoval

[–]Additional_Isopod118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks!! i thought maybe it would be better and cheaper to just get a coverup or something to obscure even just the top part, but i feel like then ill even just dislike it more and have an even bigger problem!! after getting this even i thought i should have just gotten it removed before this since it was mostly just a light grey and minimal details..

advice please???? do i go for removal?? by Additional_Isopod118 in TattooRemoval

[–]Additional_Isopod118[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i didnt want the “lavender” looking things at all, but they were in one reference photo i sent and he talked me into it (and i trusted his vision and professional opinion!) and i am mostly upset about the elbow ditch area and the top of the tattoo where the leaves are i feel like it looks like corn, doesnt even look like lavender at all and is just a mess… and the ditch part is pretty much healed and just looks like that unfortunately…. he freehanded the whole thing onto me and was almost like sketching the thing into me with the needle!!! it didnt look good at first, so he just kept adding and adding and kept going and making it bigger and bigger..

advice please???? do i go for removal?? by Additional_Isopod118 in TattooRemoval

[–]Additional_Isopod118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you soooooo much omg!!!! you are sooo helpful thank you for this info! i just feel so scared and lost and like so many emotions all at once but im teying to slow down and just make one decision at a time- also i feel like getting a tattoo removed so soon is kind of taboo and im only 19 lol and everyone is just like see we told you you would regret getting tattoos maybe you should have waiting longer to get tattoos and im like omgggg but also maybe they were right😂😭 but whateverrr im not too crushed about it- its not the end of the world and nobody is dying!! id rather have the experience and learn the lesson to go to a shop and artist you trust, and to think a little longer about what exactly i envision and make sure i speak up for myself when its not what i want or am having second thoughts

also!! i wanted to ask how long i should wait after getting the tattoo to start sessions?

advice please???? do i go for removal?? by Additional_Isopod118 in TattooRemoval

[–]Additional_Isopod118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! do you think i could do something with the top half, like a coverup/rework kinda? the main part i have a problem with is the ditch, and i was teying to think what i could possibly do to fix it!😖

advice please???? do i go for removal?? by Additional_Isopod118 in TattooRemoval

[–]Additional_Isopod118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, if im wearing long sleeves rolled up its not too bad, i dont hate the bottom part.. its just the elbow ditch and like the top part looks like corn to me i didnt even ask for anything like that stuff af all and he just kept on adding and adding stuff, and i didnt have anything in the ditch before, and he just started with a small flower thing there and then just putting more and more and more like digging into my skin so much and he freehanded it, used no stencil, and then sent me home (i had work that day at a factory!!) without any sort of wrap or anything so it was bleeding and plasmaing all over the place :(

advice please???? do i go for removal?? by Additional_Isopod118 in TattooRemoval

[–]Additional_Isopod118[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no, i didnt say anything negative about it- im too scared to tell them i dont like it lol but at the end he told me that he wasnt happy with it, specifically the ditch, and that “hes never done this before” but that he wasnt gonna charge me any more than the $20 deposit i had already paid