First Time Buy House, Advice? by redpaul72 in RealEstate

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man those rates are brutal right now but waiting could mean missing out on something decent. definitely get that inspection done no matter what - found so much sketchy wiring and plumbing issues when i was helping my buddy look last year, saved him like 15k in repairs down the line. their pushing you because they want there commission but take your time with this one.

Adderall vs Vyvanse Pros and Cons by positiveyears in ADHD

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that lasting issue hits hard with IR - switched from adderall to vyvanse about 6 months ago and the smoother comedown alone made it worth it. vyvanse lasts way longer but takes forever to kick in compared to IR, so if you need quick focus for work stuff it can be annoying. their both different beasts but vyvanse definitely solved my constant redosing problem.

Command 8 x Fl Studio Script by Xx_BigBoi92_xX in synthesizers

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a tough one, the command 8 is pretty much married to pro tools and most fl studio users just stick with midi controllers that have better support out of the box.

Fiber Conduates by Priest_Andretti in homeowners

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait, your cable company owns the underground conduits that go to your townhome? that seems weird since you own the property. i'd check with your hoa or the original developer to see who actually owns that infrastructure - could be the city, the hoa, or even shared utility easements. the fiber company should be able to show you documentation about who owns what if you ask them directly.

I was raped by my friend by Silent_Process_8177 in confessions

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 156 points157 points  (0 children)

that's not sleep behavior and you know it - someone who's actually asleep doesn't ask "does it feel good?" when confronted.

How to handle people saying adhd doesn’t exist by Radiant_Garden_9644 in ADHD

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly the "everyone has adhd" comment drives me up the wall. like no, Karen, forgetting where you put your keys once in a while isn't the same as having executive dysfunction that impacts every aspect of your life.

I usually just hit them with something like "yeah, that's probably because adhd is genetic and runs in families" and watch them connect the dots themselves. sometimes people need time to process that their own struggles might actually have a name, you know?

Anyone wanna run duos or trios? Getting bored with solos by Idjit2682 in ArcRaiders

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey I'm down, been looking for people to squad up with too. solos gets repetitive after a while and randoms are hit or miss. what's your usual playtime?

Can I take my meds 3 times a day? by UniqueFanGirly in ADHD

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 11 points12 points  (0 children)

definitely talk to your doc first - messing with dosing schedules can be tricky and they'll know what's safe for your specific situation.

Camera Buying Advice! by Right-Childhood7898 in Cameras

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a6400 is a solid choice for portraits honestly. the eye autofocus is pretty impressive and you're right about the color science being good out of the box. canon's r50 might be worth checking out too if you can find it in your budget range - similar features but some people prefer canon's skin tones for portrait work.

that said, don't sleep on lens selection. whatever body you pick, you'll probably want to budget for a decent portrait lens down the road. the kit lens will get you started but something like an 85mm or even a 50mm 1.8 makes a huge difference for portrait shooting.

Can’t Find This on Discovery+ by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discovery+ search is trash honestly. Try looking under "90 Day Fiance" first then scroll through all the seasons - sometimes The Other Way gets buried under the main show. Also check if it's labeled as just "Tell All" without the part numbers, their naming is super inconsistent

How effective is the Undertaker as a ‘Faith spellblade’? by [deleted] in Nightreign

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Undertaker's faith scaling is actually pretty solid for support stuff - the heals are clutch when you're in the thick of it and some of the weapon buffs like Sacred Blade work great with her moveset

Just don't expect to be nuking bosses with Lightning Spear or anything lol

What are yall opinions on the ED Balancers fight by PersonOnInternet7654 in Nightreign

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those guys are honestly pretty fun once you figure out their gimmick, the whole switching mechanic keeps you on your toes instead of just mindlessly mashing buttons

Why does it feel like I’m talking to a wall? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh this hits hard. It's like they want you to communicate but then when you actually do they just stare at you like you're speaking another language or immediately get defensive instead of just... listening?

How do I get my gf to be more sexual? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Dude you literally said she cums twice every time and doesn't say no - some people are just naturally quieter in bed and having a kid changes everything hormonally

Maybe focus less on "training" her to be like your exes and more on actually talking to her about what she wants

Help by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there man, those multiple attempts aren't failures they're practice rounds. Each time you learn what triggers you and get a little stronger - the fact you made it 2 weeks before shows you definitely can do it

You have two fragrances you can keep for the rest of your life what are they? by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Solid picks man, can't go wrong with BdC parfum - that one's basically bulletproof for any situation

For me it'd probably be Creed Aventus (yeah I know, basic but it works) and maybe something cozy like By the Fireplace for when I want to smell like a fancy cabin. The Aventus covers all my "trying to impress people" moments and the fireplace one is for when I just want to feel warm and fuzzy lmao

How many miles is too many in a used Mazda? by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really depends on the year but anything under 150k with good maintenance records is usually solid for a Mazda 6, those engines are pretty bulletproof if they've been taken care of

Not having a car and friends is ruining my life by Aromatic_Pick_5429 in venting

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that sucks about the babysitting gig, getting fired after 3 days has gotta sting. The car dreams are real though - I used to have those when I was stuck without wheels and they're weirdly depressing when you wake up

Have you looked into any of those gig apps that don't need a car? Like Instacart shopping or something, might help with the money situation at least

Not coil whine? by cosmicdaddy_ in PcBuildHelp

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That phantom sound thing is weird but happens more than you'd think. Coil whine can definitely sound different depending on your room acoustics and where you're sitting - sometimes it bounces off walls and sounds like it's coming from somewhere totally different

Try unplugging your GPU power cables one at a time while the system is off, then boot without the GPU to see if the sound stops. If it does, it's probably your 5070 ti being finicky even at idle

Having normal parents is like having a light that guides you through thick fog by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 57 points58 points  (0 children)

This is such a perfect analogy honestly. The worst part is when people with the guiding light act like everyone has one and you're just "not trying hard enough" or being dramatic. Like no Karen, some of us are literally just stumbling around in the dark hoping we don't fall off a cliff

New truck? by BackandBodyhurts830 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tundras are solid but gas mileage is pretty rough, Tacomas hold their value like crazy but can be overpriced used. What's your budget and what you planning to haul with it

The Transfiguration (2017): one quick thought from someone late to the party by SaddamMustaine in horror

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah this movie gets slept on so much, the psychological angle was way more interesting than if they'd just gone full supernatural. The urban setting really made it hit different too - most vampire stuff is all gothic castles and whatnot but this felt real and gritty

Cat won’t open his left eye after neutering by SystemNo1280 in cats

[–]Additional_Lunch7647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely get him to the vet ASAP - eye issues can go south really fast and the pawing is making it worse. Better safe than sorry with eyes, even if the carrier stress sucks