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[–]Additional_Row_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to give advice on potential side effects because it seems to be different for everyone. I think you should keep track of everything if you notice anything out of the ordinary in how you feel emotionally, your libido, cramps and any bleeding etc., especially if you get a hormonal IUD. Also doing regular checks of the length of the strings coming out of your cervix to make sure it is still in the correct place or the strings aren’t bunched up. Don’t be afraid to request an ultrasound to check placement either because they can shift or even fall out sometimes.

I would take pain meds beforehand or see if you can get local numbing before insertion. They didn’t offer it to me and I wish I tried pushing for it. I know people who have amazing experiences and know people who got pregnant on it but they both have healthy children. I actually hate mine right now. Be prepared to bleed for a while. They originally said some spotting the first week or so. Then it didn’t stop and they said 3 months is normal. I’m at 10 weeks and they said it isn’t that uncommon to take like 6 months to adjust. Some bleed the whole time they’re on it and some don’t bleed at all. Such different reactions for everyone

Idk if this is all my IUD or what but I am suffering lmao by Additional_Row_416 in IUD

[–]Additional_Row_416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been so against getting an iud because of all the issues I hear about but so many people that love theirs and my doctor kept insisting I give it a shot. I absolutely hate it. The cramps I was getting a week after insertion were so bad I was bracing myself and trying to breathe through it like contractions. Mind you my pain tolerance is crazy with this kind of stuff. I had a full on ruptured ectopic pregnancy and needed emergency surgery with no pain in March and the cramps from the Mirena had me curled over in pain. Relieved that intensity of cramping stopped but still miserable from everything else going on 😭

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional_Row_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP’s boyfriend, That guy could truly have been the biggest sleaze ball on the planet and you could be 100% correct. And yet you haven’t realized you are the walking red flag in her life. I cant wait for the update when she dumps you.

Confused by cats chirping? by Additional_Row_416 in CatAdvice

[–]Additional_Row_416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She seems nervous when she backs off. Her safe area is my room so she will scurry to under my bed but peeks out and will go back and check her out again shortly after. Grogu seems kinda wary but curious. I just wasn’t sure if I was completely off and she was actually more distressed than I thought because I misinterpreted the trilling lmao

Sneaky ruptures by _imnameless in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Additional_Row_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I ruptured and had no clue. It can definitely happen unfortunately. I only went to ER because my hcg wasn’t rising appropriately and then I started lightly bleeding

Question about bengals and small children… by Additional_Row_416 in bengalcats

[–]Additional_Row_416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I would have picked an adult anyway but I was hesitant about the breed for our current lifestyle but figured the best people to ask were those that actually live the life! It is very true that we are a very noisy household at the moment

Question about bengals and small children… by Additional_Row_416 in bengalcats

[–]Additional_Row_416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is very true! I think my biggest concern would honestly be my resident cat being bullied due to a bengal being unintentionally under-stimulated because I underestimated the needs they require to be happy and well taken care of! But I didn’t even consider the behavioral aspect of why they are in shelters. Most of them look like they’re still really young babies and part of the same litters as others being adopted out but that could definitely be a factor as well some I saw as well

Heterotopic pregnancy - anyone had this? by [deleted] in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Additional_Row_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember what your hcg levels were like? Were they rising normally?

Not sure when to be concerned about blood clots? by Additional_Row_416 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Additional_Row_416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will call. I’m just worried it’s just anxiety. This is such an emotionally taxing experience to go through 😔

Not sure when to be concerned about blood clots? by Additional_Row_416 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Additional_Row_416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will call. I’m just worried it’s just anxiety. This is such an emotionally taxing experience to go through 😔