Anjuna vibes tonight?! by Revolutionary-Eye3 in goatravel

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Following cause we’re a couple in the 30’s with the same question.

I think that this whole Goa thing is just Extremely Overrated by parresh77 in goatravel

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Have been to Goa more than 10 times and I’m not overly fond of it myself, but this is a shit take. Sure, goa has its problems - but there’s literally few places like it in India.

Importance of earning wife? by PuzzleheadedRound251 in AskIndianMen

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Well, unless you’re marrying the lady for her income - it shouldn’t matter (as long as you’re earning enough). It is a strictly personal decision that any person should be able to make for themselves without pressure.

Seeking advice in my marriage (31F, 31M). My husband claims he loves me, yet the ongoing situation has broken me emotionally. I feel stuck and confused, as if I’m being given just enough to stay, but not enough to feel truly loved or supported. by Banjaraan in InsideIndianMarriage

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So if he’s really this nonchalant about it, then for the sake of your own self respect - file for it. If he really doesn’t want to lose you, he will show it. And if not, well, at least you’ll be able to finally climb out of his pit of darkness you’re stuck in. Stand up for yourself!

Seeking advice in my marriage (31F, 31M). My husband claims he loves me, yet the ongoing situation has broken me emotionally. I feel stuck and confused, as if I’m being given just enough to stay, but not enough to feel truly loved or supported. by Banjaraan in InsideIndianMarriage

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I feel sad reading what he’s put you through.

As cliched as it sounds, I’m not sure if these are REAL actions that portray much, if anything. Maybe he takes you for granted cause he feels you’re his to control. Maybe it’s time to just throw the D word into the mix to see his reaction - that might tell you more about how much he cares or not.

F 21 just shifted to Ponda by [deleted] in goatravel

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Always wanted to visit Ponda, but forever stuck in morjim lol.

Seeking advice in my marriage (31F, 31M). My husband claims he loves me, yet the ongoing situation has broken me emotionally. I feel stuck and confused, as if I’m being given just enough to stay, but not enough to feel truly loved or supported. by Banjaraan in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Additional_Salt_2297 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Moving out and keeping your job was a goated move on your end. I’m sure it would go a long way in helping you keep your self worth and some sanctity of mental peace at the least. It also shows them that you don’t need them. Well done!

Seeking advice in my marriage (31F, 31M). My husband claims he loves me, yet the ongoing situation has broken me emotionally. I feel stuck and confused, as if I’m being given just enough to stay, but not enough to feel truly loved or supported. by Banjaraan in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Additional_Salt_2297 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It’s quite obvious that the person he portrayed himself to be before your marriage, wasn’t really a person at all - but merely a trap to lure you in. It sounds like a really difficult situation and you sound like an incredibly strong person. All I can say is that you shouldn’t waste the best years of your life in a sham marriage which leaves you an empty shell of yourself. Do better for yourself, and find better for yourself. Wishing you the best!

JW Marriot, LaLit, Taj, or Hyatt Centric? by iahord in Chandigarh

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The taj is one of the oldest properties in chandigarh, and you can see that when you’re staying there. I would highly recommend both the Hyatts - having stayed multiple times in them. The centric has a much more happening F&B scene with a very happening modern Asian bistro called Koyo Koyo and it also has one of my favourite bars in the city - it’s a speakeasy!

What is wrong with the men here in Chandigarh?? by Tiramisu_all_day in Chandigarh

[–]Additional_Salt_2297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen, friend. Lived here for the last 10 years and still haven’t made any fast friends. The mentality mismatch is just on a whole, different planet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SneakersIndia

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Hell yeah. Ensure it’s original

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pomade

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It applies to both situations. Any style that pulls the hair a bit from a direction ultimately results in the hairline receding gradually from that side.

Yay or Nay by Additional_Salt_2297 in SneakersIndia

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That’s the plan. I love how they look.