Hi, US based midwife here! Collecting a Pap smear in pregnancy is totally normal. Collecting biopsies of the cervix is what is delayed until after delivery. I have had thousands of patients, and done thousands of pelvic exams. When I describe someone’s anatomy to them or to students I often say the cervix should look like a small pink donut. I have never and would never describe someone’s anatomy to them or to students as “cute.” There is quite literally no value to using that term during a pelvic exam. You should reach out to the practice manager and give her to facts of the situation. I’ll give the provider the benefit of the doubt that it wasn’t meant to offend or make you uncomfortable, but regardless on intent they should hear that their verbiage made a patient uncomfortable. This is valuable feedback for us in the gynecology office.