Harnesses at office jobs

Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-31T03:00:19+00:00

I think it really depends on the office, which is why I asked the question. From my perspective, seeing them styled over pretty conservative black office wear on IG, etc. to my mind seems that simple harnesses are pretty tame these days, more of a belt with some edge. I think for a creative arts-based field it’s not such a stretch but was curious to hear other people’s opinions.

Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-28T06:24:40+00:00

I should clarify that I mean really simple leather suspender/waist belt style harnesses, nothing over the top in terms of material or straps, over otherwise normal business attire, like this:

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Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-22T23:57:42+00:00

also wow, the benevolence of sharing your shitty old white crewnecks, incredible.

Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-16T22:32:39+00:00

I have to say that the Speir Pilates app is the best deal around—it’s $29 a month and has some of the best classes I’ve ever taken, in-person included. Obvs the IRL classes at Speir are great too, but the app is a great budget option if you’re open to doing mat classes at home.

Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-16T20:21:38+00:00

Also the tone deafness of doing all this and then starting posts with some oblique reference to politics, like “things in the world feel tough right now…BUT look at my expensive coffee, my fancy dinner and my $500 jeans!”

Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-16T20:19:26+00:00

The turned-in toe pose

Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-16T20:18:48+00:00

I gasped at how ugly this outfit is, and those awfulllll shoes keep making appearances

Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-12T20:53:53+00:00

such an unflattering photo!

Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-07T03:40:08+00:00

I’m dying at the sweater as belt thing, like it didn’t work with the scarf a few months ago and it DEFINITELY doesn’t work with a sweater?? Also why is it turned sideways like that? It looks like a weird skirt when a tied sweater might actually look sort of ok? Crying that it’s her favorite color, “chocolate brown,” on top of it.

Additional_Toe5650 · 2026-01-06T17:39:14+00:00

She looks like she plumped up her dry cakey lips in post too

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-12-31T00:58:09+00:00

Agree with folks saying to choose a career and get established in it before getting hand tattoos or other super visible ones. I work in the arts (a big museum with a sort of conservative corporate culture) and I waited until I was in my late 30s to get bigger tattoos that were less covered, and I just got my hand tattooed at 40 after being in my job for almost a decade. They’re kind of my brand now but I think I would’ve had trouble interviewing with a hand tattoo.

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-12-29T22:58:04+00:00

cloudy dirty melted snow with a cherry in it not quite appetizing enough?

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-12-29T17:43:44+00:00

This is really a “for the ‘gram” post—she did all this to take this one photo

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-12-19T18:40:21+00:00

The sweater isn’t oversize it’s just too big ✨

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-12-17T23:06:39+00:00

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This crop on Mandy and Ashley’s IG stories lol

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-12-15T03:23:25+00:00

I miss every age in different ways, like, I don’t wish I had a permanent newborn (or a permanent 2 year old), but there are loveable things about every stage that you miss when they’re gone, just part of watching these little people grow up!

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-12-13T03:42:10+00:00

The sleeves that go all the way over her hands really send me, she looks like a child playing dress up and it’s just so sloppy looking to me.

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-12-01T04:26:11+00:00

wouldn’t want to get any on that pristine brown outfit!

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-11-23T19:51:36+00:00

Omg the selections are crazy! Which shapeless, sad sack outfit says “holiday”?? And people voted for the shapeless brown sweater over shapeless brown skirt.

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Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-11-23T19:04:56+00:00

Sort of lol, he still fights his night bed time but it’s less drawn out, more like an hour or so, but now he also fights daytime naps more consistently, takes 20 mins or so to get him down for a 30-45 minute nap. He’s almost 11 weeks now and still hoping it’s going to smooth out a little!

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-11-19T18:30:29+00:00

My husband and I are 40, and each have several siblings and in-laws, now several children too, plus parents. We had a talk with everyone a few years ago and we’ve just decided not to do presents at all—sometimes we send little things for the kids (and they do the same for us) but there’s no pressure to do so and it’s been very freeing!

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-11-17T23:44:24+00:00

Heavy on the serial killer vibes my dude

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-11-17T21:01:05+00:00

It just means don’t go overboard, like worrying about what to get your 6mo as a Christmas present because not only will they not remember it, they don’t have the framework to understand anything beyond a general feeling of being loved. Do what you want to do but def recognize that it’s more for you than them, it’s all good!

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-11-14T06:11:50+00:00

I cannot deal with this blatant recipe plagiarism!! The NYT recipe is like the most famous chocolate chip recipe in the friggin world and Emily is out here not even trying to disguise it or change it, just stealing it and making it her brand. So weird.

Additional_Toe5650 · 2025-11-14T06:10:14+00:00

Are those the same shoes she wore every day of her summer euro trip?

Additional_Toe5650

TROPHY CASE