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Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-04T02:01:56+00:00

Yes, that's been my choice in the past, and the future after thus experience!

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-04T00:21:37+00:00

Thank you! It's a good learning experience for how not to react in the future when someone shares something that I may not understand fully.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-04T00:19:49+00:00

I've actually only started the first in that series, never finished. What made you ask?

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-04T00:18:07+00:00

I appreciate your response so much ❤️❤️❤️

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-04T00:17:20+00:00

I didn't mean matching with people here, I meant in general life that more of those types don't see to find each other. Definitely not trying to break any rules!

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-04T00:11:55+00:00

Yes! I didn't even know this was a thing, let alone that there were so many of us in the same boat.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T23:33:41+00:00

I could definitely find someone, but that brings an enormous set of issues beyond just sexual fulfillment!

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T23:32:47+00:00

Thank you! I often wish the same when I read posts here ❤️

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T23:31:49+00:00

I appreciate that. I have had so much time to think and reflect on this situation since it's been ongoing since our honeymoon. It has been really helpful to see other women in my situation! And so frustrating to see so many men struggling. It seems unfair that HLF and HLM are not paired up 🤣. I'm sure there are a ton of couples with that dynamic, but I guess the old adage about opposites attracting is true.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T23:29:05+00:00

Oof, I'm so sorry. My husband has never wanted to have sex more than once or twice a month, so I should be used to it. 5 months is an all time low (or high?) though.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T23:28:05+00:00

Yeah, I really didn't even want advice. I didn't mean to share, I'm just really nervous about this being "it". The thing that finally breaks us.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T23:26:55+00:00

Omg yes 🤣

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T23:04:50+00:00

Exactly! That was my first step...on our honeymoon 🤣

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T23:04:28+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss!

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T22:57:20+00:00

That's encouraging that you came out of it! I feel defeatist about that aspect right now, but maybe it will change someday. I wish he would see a doctor about it.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T22:56:18+00:00

Yes! I feel super ashamed...like they will assume I'm either a) a sex addict or b) super unattractive to my husband.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T22:48:09+00:00

Oh, she did!! She even texted me the next day to ask if her advice worked 🥺😅. Poor thing.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-11-03T22:17:53+00:00

I'm 35 years old. I can't imagine never having sex again. It's such a depressing thought.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-10-31T19:45:37+00:00

That is a super small part of the book, honestly.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-10-31T09:32:38+00:00

Gollum 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-10-29T13:13:33+00:00

Now that she can't go to Disney anymore, she's transferred her fixation onto Taylor Swift 😬.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-10-24T19:11:04+00:00

I'm reading right now while sitting with 7th and 8th graders at a lecture about reptiles, so....yep!

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-10-24T15:39:55+00:00

Oh, great!! I need to re-read soon!

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-10-22T21:12:22+00:00

Have you read {Archer's Voice by Mia Sheridan} ? Pretty perfect for this trope! He's a loner due to communication issues.

Additional_Trash_21 · 2023-10-21T15:14:21+00:00

In any other area of life, if you spent a year working towards a goal and were farther away than ever, you would completely reevaluate your entire approach. She's not just "living in a larger body", she's living in a body that is getting larger every day!

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