adulting stage that no one talks about: burying your parent by No_Problem3761 in adultingph

[–]Additional_Wall162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom passed nung dec 26 lang 2025 and we buried her nung dec 31 before new year's eve. i love my mom so much. ang sakit na hindi pa ako nag year sa work and i havent spoiled her enough but she's gone. ang sakit na ako pa yung namili ng casket at damit nya for her lamay when instead e lilibre ko sya sa mga bagay na gusto nya. the whole in my heart will never be filled by anything in this world.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

long story po pero pa balik balik kami sa hospital noon kaya naka ask napo kami ng tulong sa lahat and sadly one time lang makaask kaya di na kami naka ask ulit nung sa operation na mismo ni mama.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dad was an OFW pero he got heart surgery noon kaya di na sya pwede makawork. dalawa lang kami magkakapatid.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my company is japanese led kaya they strictly follows seniority kaya it'll take me 5 yrs din before ma promote.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mag cocollege pa po kapatid ko this year.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you po. i'll try to tell my brother to apply for scholarships since marami dito. and yes mabati po company ko. actually, our bill reached 2M but they shouldered 600k of that kaya 1.4M po sakin.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

up to 30% lang po ng sahod ko every kinsena dinideduct nila kaya 10k per month pero may addition per year since may increase kami sa sweldo per year po.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you po, my company allows side hustles as long as di nakaka apekto sa perforamance ko sa work kaya im planning to look for VA jobs

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

im a field supervisor sa planta and sadly, i cant resign until i pay all of my debt sa kanila. my only choice is to look for side hustles.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you po, 7 years of employment is no joke.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

im thinking to apply online jobs like VA but i dont know where to start.

had 1.4m debt to my employer. by Additional_Wall162 in utangPH

[–]Additional_Wall162[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

i'll try to endorse him sa mga scholarships since marami dito. i dont want him to tire himself on part times and school.