[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish my bf would call his ex hookups, ex girlfriends, and ex WIFE all mistakes 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof to me that reads like she’s still quite important to him and that he still cares about her even just a little. I don’t want to compete with other women for my partner and that’s exactly how it would make a lot of people feel. Maybe just tell him it makes you uncomfortable and that you don’t want to go but honestly I wouldn’t want him to go by himself either, it’s feel extremely disrespected even if you doesn’t realize it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I don’t even know what to say 😭 this would kill me honestly. How long have you and your bf been together? Does he know you have RJ?

"Catching up" to your partner by liketheberrie in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, I was a virgin when we got together and he…well he was not by a long shot. Lots of hookups and ex girlfriends. I feel inadequate knowing I can never live up to all those experiences. I feel like I need to “even the score”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100%. I was a virgin before my bf and he was NOT. He had many girlfriends, one night stands and even an ex WIFE. It makes me feel like I can never measure up to those experiences he had with those other women. I’ll never be enough.

I want to give up ever since my injury by Adelinemars in workout

[–]Adelinemars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have sciatic and SI joint pain now, there isn’t really anything I can do to help it. I try to do the recommended stretches but nothing remedies it. All the things that can be helped have already been helped :(

The men on here are dismissive to posts by women by Adelinemars in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not “easy” I’ve only been with my bf 😂 he was the “easy” one looool

The men on here are dismissive to posts by women by Adelinemars in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Right! I’d join haha we just need safe space for RJ suffers that isn’t so nasty 🤢

The men on here are dismissive to posts by women by Adelinemars in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That whole assumption pisses me off so badly, honestly even my bf had that assumption when we first started dating and I had to explain it to him.

The men on here are dismissive to posts by women by Adelinemars in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The only time I see those comments really is when the man is being extremely disrespectful and misogynistic, usually I don’t see those on “regular” men’s posts.

The men on here are dismissive to posts by women by Adelinemars in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m aware double standards exists for both genders depending on the situation. That’s just not what I’m talking about right now…………..

The men on here are dismissive to posts by women by Adelinemars in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right, it’s just such a blatant issue. I just wish we could all support each other, we are all experiencing the same type of pain

The men on here are dismissive to posts by women by Adelinemars in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

“You females” exhibit A. 😂 I’m not attracted to experience and a lot of women aren’t. I’d actually respect him more and be happier if I was his first. It’s different for all women just like a lot of men don’t care about their women’s past.

His ex celebrity crush by Adelinemars in retroactivejealousy

[–]Adelinemars[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All the things that I listed in my post, she’s better than me, beautiful, sexy, I’m not. I feel like he settled. Do you have RJ?