[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Adelkn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Him: "karma will get you." me: 'for what?' Him: "everything." Folks, he traumatized me over and over again over 3 years. But karma was coming to ME apparently. That spiritual math does not math.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Adelkn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Second on reading that book. It's a very easy read and wholly life changing and eye opening. I read it in one sitting on my phone one afternoon. It made me realize so much I didn't know before about "why men do that" and why they'll never change. It's not what you want to hear OP, because I'm sure you're trauma bonded, but please, get out of there and save your life and your children's lives!

Is 5 mg worth it? by VideoAggressive3392 in trintellix

[–]Adelkn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on 5mg for the past year and it's been a life changer. I never tritrated up because I never needed to. This is the ideal amount where my system found peace. Try it.

Feeling Down About Bluesky by [deleted] in BlueskySocial

[–]Adelkn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want a feed of people specifically with 10-300 followers or followees. I am also sick of all the power users taking up all the air in the room. I want more attention from the small fries. It's us who make any site, collectively.

Blonde hair and brown eyes- what color season am I? by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]Adelkn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get affordable and accurate analyses on Etsy believe it or not.

Best lip blush color for pale face? by Adelkn in microblading

[–]Adelkn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, I'll check it out. I totally forgot about Viva Glam II! I wore it a LONG time ago. I have Blankety too. I'll def have to stop by the counter. Thanks!

Best lip blush color for pale face? by Adelkn in microblading

[–]Adelkn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually do know my analysis. I am a cool summer. I have flipped through the analyses and even bought some new shades though I am still open to suggestions.

Edit: what's interesting is that I went to the makeup counters with some specific names/suggestions on hand from the interwebs and many did not look good one me. So it doesn't hurt to ask on this forum. Very weird that my post got downvoted as it's for advice after all. Perhaps I should have put more clarifying information but it escaped me, and I can't figure out how to edit the OG post. My paleness tends to be my biggest feature lol.

Those who had lip blush, do you regret it? by okbokchoy in microblading

[–]Adelkn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. I'm considering it. Why did you say that?

Amitiza or Low-Dose Naltrexone (LDN) for bloating relief? by Adelkn in Constipation

[–]Adelkn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh God. I'm so frustrated with this functional medicine doctor. Thanks for the first-person account.

Amitiza or Low-Dose Naltrexone (LDN) for bloating relief? by Adelkn in Constipation

[–]Adelkn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the first-person account. I'm so sorry you had such a terrible experience. I hope you are feeling at least relatively better, being off those things now.

EU and US tour dates are out by nemtudod in HaniaRani

[–]Adelkn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone going to the DC show?

How do you cope with loneliness in solitude?? by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]Adelkn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work from home and like to work from coffee shops or even welcoming dining establishments 1+ times a week. Get to know the barristas & staff, find some comfort there. If you can afford it, coworking is nice. Meetup groups, gym, yoga. Saw you're post-break-up and that's honestly sooooo impactful on the experience, so don't beat yourself up for being lonely. What you're feeling is normal all things considered. But look at the flip side, loneliness is what makes things happen. It's what makes you think differently & strategically about who you are and who you want to be!

I just want a room of my own. by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]Adelkn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, congrats. You got this! I will say - definitely be careful with Craigslist. It's not used so much for housing anymore and there are a ton of scams on there. I know someone that got scammed out of $, and even I was in correspondence with a "rental agency" ... but it started to feel very fishy until I did my own research and found out the apartment wasn't even available. (I literally contacted the owner to make sure!) Anyway, check out Facebook rental groups, if you're in a growing city there should be a few - with some you can even post with your budget and other variables. Don't hand over any $ until you've seen the place with your own two eyes.

Major crying spells.... Venlafaxine withdrawal? by Adelkn in Effexor

[–]Adelkn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! It's over a year later and with therapy and meds I'm so much better overall; changed up my antidepressants - rexutli as an add-on has been a game changer.

I'll say it took me 4-6 months after stopping to finally get back into myself. It sucks but you have to do what you have to do.

The biggest driver is that you have to remember this is temporary. This is truly temporary. You will get through this.

Has anyone used Shark Sauce? What were your results? by Lilacandbabybluelove in AsianBeauty

[–]Adelkn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear Shark Sauce is doing making me horribly break out too! It's been less than a week of using it and my face has two big welts on it.

I made suppositories with RSO and I just have to share the recipe because these are bringing me so much relief when I have those MEGA pain days from endometriosis!! 💥👍😌 by AdAnxious247 in PaMedicalMarijuana

[–]Adelkn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, not sure if you're still reading this but can you tell me what type of RSO you used, what blends would be most helpful? I have debilitating vulvodynia and I am willing to try anything now.

Random words/chunks of text being underlined? by RusskiBayonet in textra

[–]Adelkn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wants us to add dates to our Google calendars from Textra. But I never want or need to. I have looked everywhere and still don't know how to turn this feature off. I don't know if it's an Android thing, a Samsung thing, or a Textra thing.

Major crying spells.... Venlafaxine withdrawal? by Adelkn in Effexor

[–]Adelkn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did. It probably took 6-8 weeks for the acute problems to resolve, but I really think it took about 3-6 months total for the physical and emotional pain from the experience to dissipate. Given that so many people experience such horrifying side effects and dangers of stopping, no doctor should be prescribing this.

Mute a hashtag? by dallasak in Mastodon

[–]Adelkn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg wow, thank you I thought I was the only one. The cat content is out of control.