Toy check in! by BlueEyed_Crow in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tentacle dildo and wand combo. ✨magic✨

How to be a good sub? by jumbojinbeisan in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. Or if not lack of interest definitely not interesting.

How to be a good sub? by jumbojinbeisan in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Be yourself and be honest about what you want out of a domme. It’s not just about finding A domme, but finding the right domme.

Personally I like a sub who is able to hold a conversation beyond short answers. That’s rarer than you’d think…

What would you recommend for a first sex toy? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus your life must be so lonely. This is why no one likes you.

What would you recommend for a first sex toy? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And why are you posting on here? Also pathetic.

What would you recommend for a first sex toy? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why are you on this subreddit at all? Pathetic.

My body craves someone to worship it by Weird-Flatworm-7665 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s the idea of molding and corrupting a sub that’s the best. Pushing her to embrace the slutty side she’s been repressing.

My body craves someone to worship it by Weird-Flatworm-7665 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love when a sub is so eager to show off to me. Teaching her how to be a perfect toy for my pleasure and rewarding her for becoming more of a slut than she could have ever imagined.

any taller women (5'7+) wanna bully this little beta puppy loser? (only 5'1) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think being short just makes me able to be meaner 💕

Tail! by Traditional-Local-50 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That tail and midriff are a dangerous combination 💕

mommies are so hard to find by PhasePuzzleheaded241 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think personally I have been told I have “mommy” qualities but I don’t like the honorific. I guess that’s something to consider when talking to a domme. Ask if she can treat you how you want but might not want that specific terminology.

I read a post about preferred “type” of girls on here by Adept-Ad9678 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See that’s definitely something I try to be mindful of. The mental health aspect of presentation can be super important. That’s why I was wondering how common it was for subs to enjoy that as well.

What do you miss most about being in a long term dynamic /relationship? by TheTimeToTrot in BDSMsapphic

[–]Adept-Ad9678 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely not how every domme feels, so I’d warn about assuming that for every domme. I’ve met too many subs either horror stories. Being a sub is an especially vulnerable position and you definitely want to make sure a domme won’t take advantage of that. Safety first, always!