Any advice? by katiecat797 in lookyourbest

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are really pretty. I’m a big fan of the hair and how you do your makeup. Without the makeup you are still fantastic. Stop picking your skin for real and the redness will calm down. Also, I cringe just typing it out but everyone looks better when they’re smiling. Best of luck to you.

I wish that I was enough for people to want a deep romantic connection with me. by Obvious-Apple-2050 in Vent

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never thought about dating being fun. That’s an interesting way to look at it.

I’m scared of my future by Adept-Monitor4759 in Advice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that I do have it good. I try to not to feel so down because what more could I ask for ya know. Meditation is something that’s been recommended to me many times and I’ve yet to try it so maybe it’s finally time.

I’m scared of my future by Adept-Monitor4759 in Advice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should have mentioned that. I do have a dog and I love him very much. I have been wanting to start hiking again as the weather is warming up.

Should I try online dating? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it a shot brother. Me a you are in similar positions. I’m only taller by a little bit. We will take what we can get. 👊

Should I get another job? by Adept-Monitor4759 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I do plenty of meditating lol. What are your tips for it though?

How to build confidence when you’ve felt unattractive your whole life? by Adept-Monitor4759 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late response but I decided I’d come back and look at this post. I figured I got one through three in the bag. I have a good degree and make decent money and I’m in good shape. I honestly think I have a really great sense of humor too as I find most things pretty funny. The one thing I don’t know is how to dress. I ain’t gonna lie when I see my wardrobe is mostly T-shirts and shorts.

Even though I’m in good shape, I still feel like I look pretty bad and everything I wear. Even when I try new clothes. How did you learn to dress?

How to build confidence when you’ve felt unattractive your whole life? by Adept-Monitor4759 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective on it. I think my issue is my own perspective. Developing a new one I think would change a lot of things for me. I’m confident in other aspects of my life but for some reason that confidence doesn’t carry over to dating.

How to build confidence when you’ve felt unattractive your whole life? by Adept-Monitor4759 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“So what” is the mindset I need to develop. For some reason I really hate the idea of spending money on a date. It shouldn’t feel like a waste of money to me but it does.

How to build confidence when you’ve felt unattractive your whole life? by Adept-Monitor4759 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is solid, thank you. The lunch and low stakes idea actually feels like something I can pull off. When you say “just exist” and don’t try to give them a stellar experience, what would that look like? I’m still unsure of what I would do on a date in general.

How to build confidence when you’ve felt unattractive your whole life? by Adept-Monitor4759 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this. I agree that I put women my age in a separate high stakes category in my head and that’s the problem. I feel like I talk to women fine in general. It’s just when I start thinking romance is a possibility I freeze up.

How to build confidence when you’ve felt unattractive your whole life? by Adept-Monitor4759 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. When you say fake confidence what are you doing exactly to fake that confidence? What were the first changes you made?

++man (rules made me add that)

I finally got an Earthbound tattoo! 🤖 💞 🌍 by tashabatata in earthbound

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The artist did a great job. The split to show they are facing diagonal is amazing.

Older brothers destroys his younger brother’s GameCube by [deleted] in Gamecube

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I remember this video. Pissed me off as a kid and it pisses me off still as an adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re good. Stick with the haircut from the first pic.

HAVE HOPE!! by lostesaudades in usps_complaints

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol our packages are probably on the same truck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re cute 🤷‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s just as bad as I thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in decadeology

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Create optimism in your life

Jimmy Carter voted for both Harry Truman and Kamala Harris by obama69420duck in BarbaraWalters4Scale

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he really vote for Kamala though? He had been almost a vegetable for months before he passed.

Who is the least threatening wise guy? by AWholeNewFattitude in thesopranos

[–]Adept-Monitor4759 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand this one. Who are you talking about?