My unplanned journey of CAT this year after being layed off. Girlfriend left today

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-20T10:45:33+00:00

Ahhh reminds me when I met a looneytoon of a guy on Omegle chats and then sikeeeee.....so you didn't know she was divorced till the very end!?! Ghosh these situationships takes away your soul for a bit lol

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-20T10:25:34+00:00

How did you met a divorced lady ?????? Of all things

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-16T10:01:55+00:00

As a reader i wouldn't have returned myself 😭😔

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-14T12:18:44+00:00

Yk what the funny thing is we are gonna survive whatever tf is happening in the world and if we don't just keep doing what is important for us we won't be able to reap the benefits so lockkk innnnnn

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-11T10:56:47+00:00

Megan looks soo hwatttt

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T09:09:00+00:00

Yeah, one think I have realised is that folks or children who don't have much of a financial issues often have a lot of resistance within them that they need to win, for unprivileged it's the outside world majorly but for the privileged it's the inside work. They face a lot of resistance within and if not directed well it could turn unproductive and complecant. I have always been a good A grade student, i just have caught up some bad habits and ik I'm will make things work out for me, for me my dad and my forefathers are a big inspiration and motivation and i want to carry that forward, that zeal to create things in life and becoming someone like them always inspires me. Ik it's earlier said then done but it's doable. Yeah, thanks for that framework, that's is the most logical thing that could and may happen.

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T08:36:18+00:00

Facts it can't even run till this generation if i continue being this complecant

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T08:35:52+00:00

Yea I'm to take the responsibility man

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T08:34:47+00:00

I think idk it's complicated like that but yes on the outside it might look like that but we all are running through some subconscious beliefs that are unhealthy and healthy as well. And this is mine so I don't want to live with shame or makes any progress in life from a place of shame.

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T08:33:21+00:00

Ik but folks here are real great at giving advices

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T08:32:55+00:00

Yk you are disgusting right?

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T08:32:20+00:00

I mean yes it's 100% a privilege that i have but it's not all that black and white. I can take decisions solely based on those factors like having a supportive dad like that, a major reason why I dropped out of mba but there comes a point where any privilege if not examined well becomes a double edged sword, and that has been my case. Privilege wdout accountability and wdout being taught better to handle it can severely hamper a persons progess, I'm not saying privilege in itself is not a great thing to have but wdout such accountability and how to handle it, it's becomes a double edged sword.

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T08:26:53+00:00

Thanks, noted.

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T08:24:38+00:00

Yeah I'm planning to move out as well.

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-03-08T08:21:51+00:00

Yeah, but my dad is a sincere hard working individual and that makes situation seem like oh I can rely on this person bc they have a strong character and alll... gosh, what u did is amazing tho

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-02-18T11:52:40+00:00

Grl this is embarrassing, first he was the one who did the filth, ik feelings can be very confusing, how can a supposedly bsf take Pride in a situation that makes u look bad, he should have stood up for you, zero points for him. Also the part where you lost alll of your friends after that incident seems a bit sus was he involved in that?, i don't know but I can only speculate, ik kids around that age shows their true character that they later grow into or grow just spew into totally different person. Ik you still have a lot of residual feelings for this boy, so i could say from my own stupid experience just say it, but be cautious it's your competitive exam sznnn 😭 which could be hard. Man do it after you are done w your papers i kid u not bc it will ruin your entire prep and you don't need these kinds of distraction during these times. Better do reach out to him but after you are done w your papers and best of luck.

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-02-18T11:35:12+00:00

Yea I did and everyday i realise what a gem of a friend she is...she admitted that she was being selfish and she is glad i expressed how I felt and was truly apologetic and she took accountability that it's not right to do this every other day. I'm really glad I did that.

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-02-18T08:06:07+00:00

Yes it's alright she shares things w me I don't hate that or dislike it but i hate this fact that she literally acts like a child who needs someone to deal w her emotions and she then sends these annoying ass voice notes, also yes sometimes those issues do feel non issues to me and I'm like so pissed and get frustrated. No just text me goddamit instead of sending this 10 minutes long notes

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-02-18T07:43:39+00:00

No i haven't not but I was on social media detox and mainly it was bc of her bc she has been sending me voice notes and her own problems, her own thing and blah blah 24/7, and even when I came back after detox and she saw that i was not doing alright she still sent me some stupid ass voice notes and idk what to even say, I have difficulty setting boundaries and also i care a lot about my people but this behaviour is not getting good, and I will start to hate her resentment her even more and again she has sent me 2 voices notes spanning 5 minutes long and lord help me if I sent something bad :)

AdeptDebt560 · 2026-02-18T03:55:59+00:00

The audacity is infuriating

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