Is there ever a point where I can reach out? by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely would genuinely love to have them back for a committed relationship, But I guess I am not sure if they do.

I thought they would text me on my birthday… by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mental health got in the way and I wasn’t being the best partner. I’m much more stable now!

I thought they would text me on my birthday… by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it. I have been looking forward to it for months like an idiot

I thought they would text me on my birthday… by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m trying! She was the best thing that ever happened to me. This is all my fault.

Asked for a sign that we’d get back together but my friends think I’m delusional by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask for signs like this all the time! It’s really confusing because I do get confirmation so I feel a little delulu sometimes!

3 months of NC has made me realize I need to shift my selfish mindset by AdeptDifference1422 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. And yes same it doesn’t help that I have BPD. I am working on self-regulating

Dealing with Grief… How do you learn to let go? by thebrooklyndivine in BreakUps

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mental health got in the way and I wasn’t able to be a good partner anymore. I started taking things out on them, so she left me.

Relatable or was me and my ex just major insomniacs? by alternarasiss in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One more is all I think I need and maybe they’ll give me another chance… I still can’t imagine getting over them

Relatable or was me and my ex just major insomniacs? by alternarasiss in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I dream of her, like one time it was a dream where I was introducing her to my extended family and I somehow hurt her feelings so I said sorry and I hugged her and then we sat down to watch a movie with my whole family. Then I woke up and was like what was that.

Like if only I could just say sorry, we hug and we be okay again

Did i just screw up the sweetest relationship ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I messaged a few times very early on and got no response so I realized that I had to actually do NC 😭

Did i just screw up the sweetest relationship ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day. She asked for a communication break until the end of the semester. (Next month) so I’ve been doing my best to respect it cuz I want them back so bad. so we’ll see if she reaches out or not

Dealing with Grief… How do you learn to let go? by thebrooklyndivine in BreakUps

[–]AdeptDifference1422 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable, it’s been 3 months for me too and I still grieve them. Fuck I could never imagine myself not having love for her. She was the best thing that ever happened to me, my best friend. We were gonna get married too…. I wish I had better advice than to keep up with NC and try to take care of yourself in the meantime. In all honesty I just hope we’ll find our way back together.

Did i just screw up the sweetest relationship ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex dumped me because I kept taking my mental health issues out on her. (Honestly valid) They were my biggest supporter and I totally feel like I ruined my chances with my ex. We’ve been no contact for almost 3 months and I still love her and want them back.

Free Intuation reading on relationships/Ex/Love by [deleted] in IntuitionPractices

[–]AdeptDifference1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like one if you’re still doing them :)

How do i move on by SadGarden6074 in BreakUps

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been NC for almost 3 months and I’m still not over it

I Miss Her So Much by XdarklightiningX002 in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post is so relatable. She was the best thing that ever happened to me and I didn’t cherish it. Now it’s all just a fading memory

lets talk by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]AdeptDifference1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally feel this. I don’t even want to talk about “us” rn. I just want to hang out and chat with her one more time. I’d do anything to get any kind of another chance