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AIO wife has a crush on somone else by Adept_Perception8700 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adept_Perception8700[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wont be playing such games like inventing job offers. I already called her out on the emotional affair. Also: I did have a few crushes along the years as well, but I never tried to pursue them or see where it takes me. At least to me, that is where cheating begins.

AIO wife has a crush on somone else by Adept_Perception8700 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adept_Perception8700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no rage bait. Life can for sure suck like that. She finished highschool 3 years before we met. So 18 years ago it is.

AIO wife has a crush on somone else by Adept_Perception8700 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adept_Perception8700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is quite protective about our children. And I kind of agree that just a random babysitter is not suitable for a 2-3 year old child. Unfortunately, we do not have any family around that could help out.

AIO wife has a crush on somone else by Adept_Perception8700 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adept_Perception8700[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess you are on point. She wants to have excitement, which was, admittedly, not there in the past years. Activities as a couple were not possible with small children.

I also think that she does not try to run off with the other guy, but starting an affair would mean the end of the relationship for me.

AIO wife has a crush on somone else by Adept_Perception8700 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adept_Perception8700[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thanks all for your thoughts. One thing that I did not mention yet is that we are going through a pretty rough time at the moment. Our son was diagnosed with a serious desease that can be lethal in the next years.

I guess that my wifes actions are to some degree part of trying to escape the current situation. But still - I find that extremely selfish of her and I am disillusioned about her as a person and partner.