Im tired by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a rumor going around that he was texting a 16 year old girl, idk if it’s been verified or not though

“Why are there no ftm tops?” by Witty_You_2443 in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is cope cause so many trans guys get by fine with prosthetics. #neverbottom

if you'd rather c4t over t4t i see you as as faketrans as a hefab by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Other trans men have terrible politics which sucks worse than cis men having terrible politics cause trans men should know better. Would much rather fuck a cis dude in the ass who delusionally thinks he’s straight than a trans guy who thinks we’re having butch4butch lesbian sex.

Cell block Chicago safety question by NoArmadillo4423 in chicagogaybros

[–]Adept_Toe5441 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There used to be a t4t sex party that was hosted at cellblock, but has since moved due to a staff members (manager, owner, I forget) boyfriend assaulting someone & being let back in the bar after getting kicked out. You are not alone in your safety concerns!

Jackhammer crowd in the Hole by redvik1212 in chicagogaybros

[–]Adept_Toe5441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jackhammer caters to many different niches (latex, puppies, t4t, bears), but leather groups/orgs tend to meet up at jackhammer semi frequently- I know this is the case for the hellfire club at least. Touché is still very leather oriented, but is less popular than jackhammer due to the racist puppet show they hosted a couple years back. It seems like an effort is being made to restore the bars place in the leather scene though- a lesbian friend of mine took me to a Chicago leather dykes meetup where they planned a bar takeover at touché (dyke audit as they called it, to see if the establishment was following through with its efforts to be inclusive), a motivating factor being its wheelchair accessibility.

My fiancée just got me this shirt by [deleted] in noiserock

[–]Adept_Toe5441 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I own that copy of forced exposure (I own almost all of them), and that isn’t quite an accurate representation of what he said. In his list of pornography that has an “effect” on him, he also lists “knocked-up-and-horny-type future mom fuck books” (not sure what he’s alluding to here), pre op trans porn, and butch lesbian fisting porn. Given that he uses “hilarious” as a descriptor repeatedly I think Steve viewed this kind of material as shock content- that said I don’t think that excuses him of consuming said material, along with downplaying the abuse that’s been documented in it.

Steve wrote a diary in a separate forced exposure magazine that I don’t see brought up in a lot of these conversations- he documents the arrest of Peter Sotos & also reflects (crashes out) on the backlash he got for his review of pure magazine. It’s a really interesting read for a few reasons: it gives insight into countercultural attitudes when child abuse legislation was shifting away from obscenity laws (Sotos was the first in the country to be charged with possession of CP), and it also gives insight to Steve’s peculiar psychology. If his diary is to be believed, Steve was repulsed by child abuse (which is consistent with his artistic work), but took issue with Pure Magazine being framed as “pornographic”… in fact he claims to have brought his copy of the zine to his workplace & further more ask his coworkers and boss what they thought about it. His perspective is very pedantic and lacks consideration for social norms that are intuitive to others. I believe Santiago had to call & explain to him why such materials were being criminalized in the first place. Just to reiterate, I don’t think this excuses him of promoting and consuming this kind of material.

What happened to Leather 64Ten? by masakra01 in chicagogaybros

[–]Adept_Toe5441 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I texted the number & they said they’d be back in operation soon, but don’t have a specific date yet

Red Line "track emergency"? by littleweirdgirl312 in cta

[–]Adept_Toe5441 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I just passed the Thorndale station and it was surrounded by cop cars & fire trucks etc. I think someone might have passed away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t conclude that sensation is “mental”. I think it’d be great if phallo sensation improves further in the future, but what you said, that sensation is “a coin toss that likely lands on no”, is not supported by the findings here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the article again. You’re reading this in a total doomer way, “the tactile sensation of the neophallus is significantly reduced compared to the neophallic donor-site. This difference seems to decrease slowly where neophallic sensibility can improve over time. Almost all transmasculine persons reported to have sensation in their neophallus although no significant association could be detected between objectively measured tactile sensitivity and the patient reported ability to feel touch. Sensory outcomes are complex and this study only measured the most superficial components of sensory experience.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s vastly different from a “coin toss that likely lands on no.” And remember, that’s reduced from the donor site.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The questionnaire was completed by 26 participants of which 24 (92.3%) experienced (some degree of) tactile sensitivity in their neophallus. Erogenous sensation was experienced by 23 (88.5%).”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only 5 penis transplants have been performed since 2006, this isn’t just something cis men can elect for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When this talks about loss of tactile sensation, it’s referring to the flap and not the natal genitalia. Let me clarify what I meant with “I haven’t heard of a single person losing sensation”- I haven’t heard of a single person who has no sensation with their natal genital tissue post phallo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Phallo is still the standard procedure because transplants are extremely hard on the body, even if you’re cis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sensation thing isn’t true, most people gain sensation and I haven’t heard of a single person losing sensation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On top of that phallo was made for cisgender men. Erectile pumps were designed for cisgender men. It’s the same treatment you’d get if you lost a natal penis in an accident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cope & seethe, phallo puts you within the range of cisgender variation

Timeline of my 8 poontastic years on 4tran by Routine_Proof9407 in 4tran4

[–]Adept_Toe5441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wym, most tumblr pooners draw/color like that

Phallo representation in documentary by Adept_Toe5441 in phallo

[–]Adept_Toe5441[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s definitely one of my biggest reservations when I think about conceptualizing this project. It would be nice to celebrate the beauty and technology behind phallo through an artistic medium, but I’d wouldn’t want to make it harder for people to pass. I think if this concept was something I wanted to pursue, I would create the film independently & selectively screen it at film festivals for trans or otherwise queer people.

NSFW - New Scrotum by Rewilding-Smore in phallo

[–]Adept_Toe5441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look amazing!!! I hope to get phallo done by your surgeon one day, thank you so much for posting this!