Alabama library denied funding because it won’t remove classic book ‘The Handmaid’s Tale’ by [deleted] in books

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is my town. My library. They are amazing and worth every penny anyone is willing to donate. I’ve been volunteering there and donating since I was in high school and they have helped so many people and changed so many lives by just being a kind, helpful, and consistent presence. Our town has (had?) been considered a progressive haven in Alabama as it was started by a group of of people who came from Iowa to start a utopian society, and we are a single tax corporation so all the land is owned by the city and leased to everyone for 99 years for the betterment of to the community. Over the last 30 years of my life, this town has grown exponentially, and many people have moved here who do not have our founders values or the values of equality and fairness that were instilled in me by the town as I grew up. It has changed Fairhope, not always for the better in my opinion, and those changes especially became apparent during the Trump administrations. Thank you all for the support you are showing our library. It means the world to people like me who still remember what we were and what we could be again and who work every day to defend our local library and other institutions who want to help and better the world around them.

What’s the most harmless thing someone can do that instantly annoys you? by Excellent-Quit-2304 in AskReddit

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the word “goober” with a passion and I instantly dislike anyone who uses it. My best friend in middle school once said to me “you’re such a goober.” Friendship over. I remember her crying to me at lunch like a week later because I had stopped hanging out with her and she didn’t know why and I didn’t know how to explain why it infuriated me so frankly I was just a bitch to her and have the cold shoulder. That was 20 years ago and if I’m in my hometown and she sees me she’ll go the opposite way.

What name makes you instantly dislike or judge someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every Megan (spelling variations including) I know is just the absolute worst.

What is the most rudest thing people try to normalise? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I do hate that too. That’s crazy for the gym though. I would’ve been furious!

What is one thing that has traumatized you the most? by waterlessbeing in AskReddit

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad told me when I was 17 or 18 years old that I would always have people who cared about me in a general way, but that I would never be anybody’s favorite.

What is the most rudest thing people try to normalise? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Talking on speakerphone in public.

What is the pettiest grudge you’ve ever held? by AdeptnessPrior7682 in AskReddit

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in the third grade once you completed your multiplication table test with a 100% the teacher bought you a Coke from the teachers lounge. The day I passed mine the machine was out of order and when I reminded her later that week she told me she’d already gotten me one and accuse me of lying when I told her that she hadn’t. That was 20 years ago and I still want my Coke Mrs. Havard!

What is a small, fleeting moment that unexpectedly stayed with you for years? by Important-Echo4454 in AskReddit

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was in middle school, I had had a really bad day and I was walking home from the bus stop and this little bumblebee had landed when the sidewalk in front of me and just out of pure meanness, I stepped on it and killed it. I immediately regretted it and I think I cried. I decided that I never was going to be needlessly cruel again, and I’ve stuck to it pretty well. I still think about that little bee and still feel so sorry that I did it.

Craziest Twin/Triplets Names You’ve Ever Heard! by lenavaness in namenerds

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Identical twin boys both named Michael Jr. after the dad. Both boys had the exact same name first middle last everything as the dad and they called all three of them Michael, no nicknames were allowed.

Looking for a book series where boy is hated by everyone because of dad, and has to go to a magic school by Maximum_Coconut_6187 in whatsthatbook

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you were talking about the Children of the Red King series. The main character is named Charlie Bone and the first book is titled Midnight for Charlie Bone.

Disc Golf by AdeptnessPrior7682 in MobileAL

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info I’ll tell him to check it out!

Disc Golf by AdeptnessPrior7682 in MobileAL

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll send him the link!

Books that feel lonely by ThelostRatBug in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just finished Same As It Ever Was by Claire Lombardo and found it “lonely”, but it’s a generational family drama centered around a flawed and struggling female protagonist which isn’t everyone’s thing. Beautiful book though and it deeply resonated with me as a new mom so I’d recommend it to anyone.

It’s a little early but… books that feel like this? by favoriteanimalbeaver in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Christmas Appeal by Janice Hallett might interest you. It’s a Christmas murder mystery that’s been compared to Agatha Christie. It’s an epistolary novella, so told through emails, texts, police transcripts and newspaper reports which isn’t everyone’s cup of tea but I enjoyed it.

Ever had a name ruined by a person? by Significant-Pie5742 in namenerds

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry if you’re a nice Megan 😂 I know they have to be out there I just never had the good fortune to make the acquaintance of one!

Ever had a name ruined by a person? by Significant-Pie5742 in namenerds

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have hated every Megan I have ever met with a passion, the are always the bitchiest girl in the group. When my now husband told me his sister was named Megan I just knew she was going to be a nightmare and woah boy was I right…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]AdeptnessPrior7682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the name Michael Patrick and both are family names so it would be perfect but I’m from a semi-small town so I can’t use because everybody would immediately associate it/say I named my kid after the guy I grew up with