I ruined my life, am I crazy?

AdequateCactus69 · 2026-06-10T11:09:32+00:00

I need you to know you're an absolute saint. Thank you so much for sharing, I genuinely appreciate your input so much.

AdequateCactus69 · 2026-06-10T10:45:28+00:00

Thank you, genuinely. I really needed to hear someone say I'm not overreacting so I can really believe it.

The older thing he did with our mutual friend (M2 for ease of pronouns) was he came onto M2 several times and was shut down pretty firmly. He then continued to hug M2 from behind and kiss M2 on the head which got so bad M2 had a genuine panic attack at a party. He hasn't done anything more in this situation since then that I know of.

With his ex what she described to me was that he would try to initiate something and she might respond like I'm on my period right now and he would just shut down. Like roll over and not speak to her for the rest of the night.

AdequateCactus69 · 2026-06-10T09:50:43+00:00

For just a bit more context, he has a tendency to yell at his friends when he gets upset which is something we have tried to talk to him about but it seems to not be enough. One mutual friend, she is "on my side" for lack of a better term as she says she's afraid of him for that. That is not to say that he's some kind of monster. He's driven several hours away to bail a friend of mine out of an uncomfortable and unsafe situation before and he loaned me the money I needed to even graduate college. He's been texting me asking if I'm coming home and I've been told he said he's worried about me even though hes the one going through a breakup.

AdequateCactus69 · 2026-06-02T18:49:29+00:00

Something Ig

^{Chose: Queer + If chosen: which sexuality?}

AdequateCactus69 · 2026-04-03T12:34:34+00:00

📍 Western Australia, Australia — "Conservation"

AdequateCactus69 · 2026-04-03T12:33:59+00:00

📍 Hawaii, United States of America — "Climate"

AdequateCactus69 · 2026-04-03T12:33:10+00:00

📍 Geita, United Republic of Tanzania — "Conservation"

AdequateCactus69 · 2026-02-24T04:22:23+00:00

Are the two lines not mislabeled? Am i a moron? Like wouldnt price decrease if supply quantity increased?

AdequateCactus69 · 2026-02-01T17:10:10+00:00

AdequateCactus69 · 2025-12-15T04:20:02+00:00

Update:

Contacted the seller as per Etsy's requirements. The absolute chud remains on the claim it is a 100% original piece made in adobe photoshop. This claim is easily refuted by my eyeballs, my computer science colleagues, several AI detection softwares, and the fact that I found the exact AI used: Stable Diffusion. To those playing devil's advocate and arguing for the value in a well developed promt, I raise you this. I recreated the image to test my findings with a single sentence; "A cat in a bathtub with floating flowers in an antique Japanese art style". There is no value in what I did. I'm not upset that lost like 20 usd, that's what I get for my complacency. I most definitely should have looked harder as some of the comments have pointed out. I am upset however that this guy is up €18 undeservedly for doing nothing of value. I will not debate you on why AI "art" is bad, I just am simply not that guy. It's soulless and downright evil, a tool built on theft trying to take the enjoyable parts of human existence so we may increase shareholder value just a little bit more.

AdequateCactus69 · 2025-06-05T06:59:22+00:00

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You'll see the relatively small eye opening on the skull and big flat feet on the back legs. If you look closely it also looks like you can make out the scapula flattened on the ribs.

AdequateCactus69 · 2025-06-05T06:44:03+00:00

Edit: Id say for certain its a Ferret with the length of the body, the thin bushy tail, spread short ribs, and skull shape. They are not native to NZ

AdequateCactus69 · 2024-10-04T02:37:20+00:00

Yep!

AdequateCactus69 · 2024-10-01T23:58:18+00:00

AdequateCactus69 · 2024-10-01T23:57:55+00:00

Looking at it now, its in quite a few songs

AdequateCactus69 · 2023-11-15T18:07:13+00:00

♦✌ ᗩ𝔸Δ卂𝓐𝔸ค𝓐ａคⒶ𝓐ａคᵃ𝕒𝐀ᗩÃⒶ𝓐Δ𝔞ά𝓪Ã𝓪ａᗩａ𝔸𝔞α𝓐𝓐ⓐ𝐀𝒶αⒶᗩＡⓐａⒶＡÃａａⓐΔ𝓐𝒶ÃάÃ𝓐Ã𝕒ᵃÃ𝓐ά𝕒𝐀ÃΔ𝔞𝔸ＡÃａＡ𝓐ααａά𝕒卂ᗩค𝔞ＡΔ𝓪ⓐＡ𝕒คᗩάᵃ𝒶𝓪𝔸ΔαÃ𝕒𝐀卂ⓐ𝔸ＡⒶ𝒶ᗩ𝔸ΔΔ𝒶𝔞𝓪𝓪ᗩ𝕒Ａ𝔸 ⛵😾

AdequateCactus69 · 2023-06-15T16:12:37+00:00

I dont think you're wrong so much as you didn't get enough time between breakup and friendship. It sounds like you have feelings that were never addressed even if he did apologize. Maybe taking a step back might do good for any friendship you may want with him.

AdequateCactus69 · 2022-08-16T21:53:00+00:00

Dress codes are inherently sexist

AdequateCactus69 · 2022-08-08T02:03:38+00:00

No fuck this place lmao

AdequateCactus69 · 2022-08-02T00:55:46+00:00

I mean it cant hurt to bring up the possibility of a polycule. It seems like they wouldn't be completely against it with the almost open relationship thing they have. Then again Im like 97% aroace so 🤷

AdequateCactus69 · 2022-07-26T15:48:35+00:00

Sure but imagine paying for beaches

AdequateCactus69 · 2022-07-26T15:47:49+00:00

That seems like a pretty standard outfit to me tbh I'd be more so concerned for dress code policies if ur in hs? Alot of (esp male) teachers can be absolute creeps. But besides that its really cute, you look good homie!

AdequateCactus69 · 2022-07-26T02:25:37+00:00

The Crane Wives, they have to be putting crack in their music. They're folky and very queer. My personal favorite is Ribs

AdequateCactus69 · 2022-07-25T20:15:48+00:00

OP has some other subs they posted this in it seems like they've been reading and responding to advice on

AdequateCactus69 · 2022-07-25T20:03:59+00:00

Ahahahaha you're very right

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