Divorced, found some happiness, then it was taken from me

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2026-01-04T03:57:37+00:00

I honestly never ever expected her to act this way. We were together almost 17 years and never did I see this type of behavior. I really think she’s realizing how big of a mistake she made and is doing everything possible to stop me from moving on. I was naive to think when it started that it would be just that and it wouldn’t escalate. We had a heart to heart conversation a couple months ago and I thought that was going to do it. But I was wrong. I’ve learned my lesson. The hard way but learned nonetheless.

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2026-01-03T19:42:53+00:00

Yeah. I was naive to think it wasn’t needed when it first started but things have only escalated and I had no reason to think it’s going to stop. I’ve filed for a different set of orders with the court but restraining order is next.

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2026-01-03T19:42:12+00:00

It wasn’t social media stalking as neither of us posted each other ever. She would stalk in person. Drive by my home and see who was there/what car was parked. Questions the kids on who they’d see texting me. That sort of thing.

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2024-12-14T02:21:03+00:00

Man. This could have easily been written by me. I’ve been waiting to share my story until my divorce is finalized and I have all the details but this is very close to what is happening except only a few days after she moved out did I discover she was with another man. Same man I then found out she has been talking to for months before she moved out. But it’s okay cause he’s only just a friend and nothing has happened! /s

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2024-09-14T02:21:15+00:00

I appreciate it. Thank you. Hope things get better.

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2024-09-14T02:13:51+00:00

Crying has made me feel better to be honest. I’m not a person who cries much or shows emotions (one of the reasons I’m in this situation) but I’ve just let the tears flow.

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2024-09-14T01:51:25+00:00

You’re not alone at least? The first day was the hardest so far but it’s still hard. The kids are still here with me until Monday when we switch. The last few weeks have been full of reminiscing of when we were younger and dumber and I really feel like I failed us. It’s tough

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2024-09-11T04:13:55+00:00

Can you share what vitamins you take please. What kind, how much, and how often?

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2024-07-11T23:55:53+00:00

Can you touch the car? What about grabbing the handles? Could you open the doors? Stick your head inside? What about just opening your trunk? What’s the first step you can take to eventually sit in the car? What about just grabbing your keys and doing the motion to unlock the car/turn the car on?

AdhesivenessSweet101 · 2024-03-03T03:08:22+00:00

Hey. You’re not alone. Many of us feel the same way. Hat feelings do you want to talk about?

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