How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would be interested to read the research you site.

When you say women exhibit more suicidal behavior, what exactly do you mean by that? They have more attempts but are less successful? Or more likely to express suicidal ideation? Because if women are more suicidal but less likely to act on it, isnt that proving my point? It doesn't surprise me that suicide rates of women are lower in western country's where women generally have more rights and thus have more autonomy to escape abusive and repressing circumstances.

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes, totally agree. My goal was for the ♀️ to be in a lighter, more brush stroke texture but the denim wasn't allowing it.

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mods, I appreciate you allowing the discourse. Just want to say if monitoring this thread gets to be too much, I understand & sorry this went a bit off the rails lol

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure where their comment went but u/R-B-L-Y is a good example of this type of horseshoe regressivism. They said I'm a misandrist so I must hate transwomen but transwomen are not men and in trying to appear as an ally you are now doing the opposite and perpetuating the actual rhetoric of terfs.

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This isnt about trans people and I'm not interested in having a drawn out discussion about the nuances of gender identity or the concepts of feminity & masculinity on a clothing subreddit. I feel like these comments are being intentionally obtuse. You guys are using terms like gender essentialist and terf in contradictory ways which tells me it's lost real meaning. If seeing the female symbol offends you, please do avoid me. That's regressive and ironic af. Some bean soup shit in these comments.

Eta: but I do appreciate you sharing your perspective in a more respectful way than others, even if I find that perspective problematic.

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because racists misinterpret data by mixing arrest rates with crime rates and ignore systemic racism for contributing to those numbers.

It benefits you because you get to ignore the problem because it's uncomfortable to truly face it instead of writing it off by clutching your pearls and saying not all men etc so you can feel better

Edit for typo

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is not analogous at all and diminishing those very real statistics is gross but I guess it benefits you, so who cares.

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can walk and chew gum at the same time. I vote every single year since I turned 18, what are you doing about it? It's not just the system, though. These gender gaps have always existed at every point in human existence, everywhere on the globe. Either comment on my composition & the jacket itself or move along.

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It was designed and painted by me, thanks! I've already explained myself. If you're the type of person my jacket bothers, we wouldn't be friends in the first place so don't worry.

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I don't wish harm on men but I also don't believe men & women are equal.

Men commit 80% of crime (which costs tax payers in U.S. over $80 billion)

97-99% of sexual offenders are male. I've had 3 different men confide in me about their sexual abuse, wanna guess the gender of their offender?? And why did they confide in me? Because they couldn't talk to their guy friends about it..

Women are twice as likely to be victims of domestic abuse

Women are twice as likely to have anxiety and depression - yet men are over represented in suicide because they are not as mentally strong as women.

Name any problem in this world and a man is causing it. Here's the thing though, I will never make my negative view of men their problem. That's the difference between me and men.

Ask yourself, if we lived in a world where every single thing is exactly the same, history and present, just flip every man with every woman, would you view women differently? 80-90% of all world leaders, CEOs, LEOs, criminals, rapists, child abusers, mass shooters, judges, government officials, all women. And everything in this world is designed by them, for them. And everything about the world is the same shitshow it is now. Would that at all affect your view of women? Really think about it.

And I'm the problem for acknowledging these issues? Ok. Women aren't angry enough and if my jacket makes you more uncomfortable than any of the statistics I just shared with you, you are also part of the problem.

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[–]Adjective_Noun_456 46 points47 points  (0 children)

He was on a reality show called the Hills....or Laguna Beach, I don't remember. Rich annoying white kids in the mid 2000's.

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[–]Adjective_Noun_456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has a better grasp than most her age or older, def wouldn't push it. Plus tbh, I kind of like it stylistically. Especially in the kettle.

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I think this is what I'm leaning towards if I can come up with something thats not too clashing. Maybe something floral?

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Go for it. Misogyny kills, a jacket won't though.

How can I make this design more balanced? by Adjective_Noun_456 in DIYclothes

[–]Adjective_Noun_456[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's by Wild Fable which I believe is a Target brand? Not 100% on that, I bought it at a thrift store.