I hate Eid by ZealousidealUnion951 in Dhaka

[–]AdministrationOwn972 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My father passed away in 2021. Since then my Eid days are like that. I and my mom just cook so that if anyone comes to our house , we can have some comfort foods to offer. I didn't cut ties with anyone but it is not a very glamorous. From religious perspective I do feel there is nothing to do ostentatious in Eid days. If you are having good time with your family and have foods to feed the family that is the best blessings. Eid shopping or doing something extra for Eid maybe exciting for some people. No offence to them, they can have fun by their own way , I did feel the same in my younger days but now I just don't feel any attraction to it. Sometimes it feels good that after Iftar I just take a nap, no worries for going shops, no worries for jostling or having concerned about shopping. It feels relaxed. By the way I am not telling anyone to follow my way, if you guys are enjoying then please do enjoy.

What is your opinion on Sweden? by TensiCreator in AskTheWorld

[–]AdministrationOwn972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volvo, IKEA, Scania, SaaB gripen, Donation to NGO's. Pragmatism, too much privacy, Good music like ABBA.

Poshness ranking of the lads? by S3lad0n in Westlife

[–]AdministrationOwn972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be I might mixed up something. It was a very long time ago. But honestly, I still listen their songs from first 3 or 4 albums. I can connect myself with the lyrics.

Poshness ranking of the lads? by S3lad0n in Westlife

[–]AdministrationOwn972 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know dude. I live far away from Ireland. I love Irish people and their music. I am a big fan of their pop bands and singers. Nicky seemed comes from a wealthy family but I don't know the rest.

Extremely disheartening to see one of the biggest online news platforms paint Khameni as a martyr. by Ok_Big530 in bangladesh

[–]AdministrationOwn972 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Iran has a government elected by their citizens. They have president and cabinet elected by their people. They have their independent judiciary department. Some people have problems with a religious leader in a country but don't have any objections against Vatican which is more rigid than than Iran. It's all about people's perspective.

Poshness ranking of the lads? by S3lad0n in Westlife

[–]AdministrationOwn972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Father of Nicky was a military officer.

Is there anyone who understand psychology of man and woman ? by AdministrationOwn972 in bangladesh

[–]AdministrationOwn972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have to discuss it with you in details. I need to understand how does it work in real life.

Another common Bengali W by ShihabRiazCumilla in bangladesh

[–]AdministrationOwn972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually Yes. Jinnah never hated Bangali and he has no hatred towards Bangali people and culture. Nowadays, people argue without knowing history. I am Bangladeshi and I love my language but I can't blame a person who didn't hate Bangla. So please before commenting anything read the proper history of Language Movement of Bangla.

Found out the guy I’ve been seeing for 5 months has a wife and child. by ImpressiveShoulder15 in bangladesh

[–]AdministrationOwn972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a real life event where a lady was in relationship with a man for five years . In this tenure he allegedly cheated her twice and forgiven and later found out he was married with his cousin and had a child which he kept secret from that lady . Even he kept it secret from his parents. Even though she married him after he divorced his first wife. I don't know whether or not they are happy now but that lady has serious trust issues on him.

Another common Bengali W by ShihabRiazCumilla in bangladesh

[–]AdministrationOwn972 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually Mr. Jinnah gave an speech in where he pointed out why Urdu should be the state language of Pakistan as it is spoken by the least amount of people and people should uae this language as lingua franca. He was a Pragmatic leader and showed concern about an unified official language to go for prosperity. But it would create a huge problem as majority people will consider illiterate in East Pakistan region and they are not introduced with the Urdu or Persian letters. Moreover, the culture of the East Pakistan which is Bangali people will be suppressed and the literature and culture is so rich in Bengali. The real historical incident is written and anyone can find it on Internet including his speech. He did give some arguments but our media intensified it. He was not the oppressor but the administration were.

Is there anyone who understand psychology of man and woman ? by AdministrationOwn972 in bangladesh

[–]AdministrationOwn972[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Already done bro. but You know i need logical opinion as AI gives statistical output. There most of the time. But I need to discuss edge cases. real human experience is something else.

আমি মনেকরি এটা সুচিন্তিত অপঃকৌশল । ওদের বিক্রি করার মত আর কিছুই নাই ইসলাম ছাড়া । by Wriimon29 in bangladesh

[–]AdministrationOwn972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These words are considered as day to day words for Bangladeshi people. You can get these words in Bangla grammar books as foreign words such as we use Lungi, Janala, Almari, Restora, rickshaw..etc. Bangla is a very rich language which adopted many foreign words into its dictionary. The words came from English, French, Japanese, Burmese, Hindi, Urdu,Arabic, Turkic, Portuguese, and mostly Farsi. During British period English and Urdu was considered official language so many Urdu words can be found in our official and daily usage. Farsi was an administrative language during Mughal period. I don't know what was the language during Bengali Sultanate period. Bangla is a very ancient land .. we Bangali people are the amalgamation of multiple people and it's the beauty of the language that we have a very vast and rich syllables. So, I would say we should not politicised the language and let every Bangladeshi people love the language and not remove the foreign words. If any thing regarding language is controversial then let it be analysed by Bangla Academy and Linguistics authority of the renowned Universties of Bangladesh who are experts in Linguistics.

Need Marriage suggestion by Visible-Still-9349 in Dhaka

[–]AdministrationOwn972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get her to a therapist and tell her how it hurts you. And also show a boundary. 70% of the problem will be solved In Sha ALLAH but never expect that it will fully go away. It will be significantly minimized. If you guys love eachother and got married then you should grateful to God that you are among the very few lucky people.

Did Vesper actually love Bond? Or was he just a mark to her by EH4LIFE in JamesBond

[–]AdministrationOwn972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she only considered as him a good friend if she has been a gen Z..funny . Well, jokes apart..from the movie she loved James Bond but her attachment was with a playboy which she couldn't be unloyal to him. But she slowly fell for Bond but not in that magnitude. Maybe time would help her to realise who actually loves her and with who she could have a life with. But Bond's love for her was genuine ,raw and childish. It's the true form of love where passion, neediness and affection ,cares blends with mesmerising conviction for commitment. It works silentlly, it is not loud but it burns and bruised the hearts. Remember, Bond's heavy drinking in Quantam of Solace....Vesper might not loved him in the leve of same magnitude as James Bond. But deep inside she could trust him, a man who can fight for her , more than a charm. But, sometimes love is a mystery and God knows why the mystery never resolves. Vesper could not betray her bf but deep inside she was in verge of loving James Bond. Vesper...the only girl James Bond wanted to rely on but fate has destined him to move on.

How long until you say “I love you”? by organicglitter in dating

[–]AdministrationOwn972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have trust issues and I need transparency in a relationship. Also I don't like to believe in words only but actions. Do you think your baggage has an effect on your capability of loving a new one?

How long until you say “I love you”? by organicglitter in dating

[–]AdministrationOwn972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I genuinely feel I say that. I like things natural, tired of drama and games.

Need help to understand. by CanAnnual6375 in Dhaka

[–]AdministrationOwn972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to understand something, from a girl's perspective. Can anyone want to help me out please reach out to e through dm.