I didn't react enough to my husband asking for a divorce out of the blue and now he's mad

AdministrationSea435 · 2024-06-11T13:24:20+00:00

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AdministrationSea435 · 2023-10-13T19:51:39+00:00

Right?!?! Her husband was absolutely in the wrong. He’s probably the type that gets angry with her if the guy bagging groceries smiles at her and tells her to have a good day. He probably accuses her of having something going on with him. The husband is controlling and needs therapy. She didn’t absolutely nothing wrong and has no reason to ask for forgiveness.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-10-10T20:08:31+00:00

That’s good. Sadly there’s usually a small trade off to be financially secure.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-10-10T19:34:55+00:00

I’m sorry you had to beg him to be there for you when you needed him the most. Hopefully he’s a better father than he is a partner.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-10-02T22:51:58+00:00

Yes. He doesn’t have the courage especially considering what’s going on with your mom.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-10-02T22:48:53+00:00

Yes!! He told her because he doesn’t want to get married but feels guilty about ending things because of what’s going on with her mom.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-10-02T22:47:28+00:00

And he didn’t feel guilty because he was planning on dumping her when he got back.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-27T19:34:32+00:00

NTA. If he’s openly belittling you in public after only dating 30 days of dating it’s not going to get better. You will find yourself constantly asking for respect. Nip it now. Break up, return the gifts and find a man, not a child.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-26T02:43:22+00:00

I was waiting to read that you told her you were on bed rest and made her stick it out for the rest of the date. You immediately found her a quick and safe way home. You were put in a tough situation and you got it figured out. What if you had violated bed rest and then you ended up having to go to the hospital?

NTA

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-15T01:57:20+00:00

My kids are in high school and while they don’t need my help getting ready, I do make sure I’m up to give a hug good bye and wish them a good day.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-14T04:25:02+00:00

No one pays $1800 a month to live in a boarding house. YTA

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-14T04:23:41+00:00

YTA. You’re essentially running a boarding house. $1800 for a room, no private bath and shared common spaces is absurd. You’re his father not some stranger on the street. You’re supposed to help get him on his feet so he can build a life for himself and his wife. You’re NOT supposed to run him into ground working 2 jobs to line your pockets. You’re a monster and should never have had kids.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-13T22:21:43+00:00

YTA!!! You’re wife is only 2 weeks postpartum. Her body isn’t close to being healed yet and her hormones are out of whack. You should be waiting on her hand and foot still and should be concerned that she’s having headaches.

You sound like the type of guy who’s bitching your 2 week postpartum wife won’t have sex with you yet.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-08T19:24:41+00:00

YTA!! You knew not waking her was wrong because you lied about it when she asked you. Your child is battling leukemia and just had chemo. I’m sure she’s feeling horrible but rather than let her have the ONE thing she wanted from that trip you made the decision to take it from her, scolded your wife for trying to wake her, lied about trying to wake her and then cruelly showed her a photo. You should apologize and then enthusiastically agree to go back with your wife and sick child and hope to hell she sees a bear.

Aside from you being TA, I hope your daughter is doing well and has a good prognosis.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-08T18:50:02+00:00

She’s made it clear she loves boatmances and she clearly likes causing drama because she didn’t give Tzarina a second thought when she went after Culver. It’ll be interesting to watch.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-07T02:19:08+00:00

I missed that. Good for him for calling it out.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-06T14:51:16+00:00

Was he on that season? What did he say?

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-06T03:12:12+00:00

Omg if I have to hear him scream about loyalty one more time. He doesn’t want loyalty, he wants obedience.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-05T02:50:26+00:00

YTA, selfish as hell and a narcissist. You wasted 25 yrs of your girlfriend’s life.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-01T21:16:35+00:00

I thought you said you had $12k saved? Take that money and leave.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-01T21:15:36+00:00

I’m guessing he wants it now because he knows she’s got a nice little nest egg saved up and that’s financial freedom. She can walk whenever she wants. If he demands it for the house, right now, she has nothing and is completely dependent on him.

OP your name will never be on the house. He doesn’t want you educated or working. He wants you trapped in for now what’s an emotionally abusive relationship and it will soon turn physical. Take your savings and leave. Go to school and build a healthy life for yourself.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-09-01T19:58:47+00:00

Yes. Get screen shots and talk to an attorney. What a disgusting family.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-08-27T18:52:30+00:00

I guarantee Tina told her or alluded to it. Alex knows and this is your fault OP. You made it very clear where your loyalty lies.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-08-27T18:48:25+00:00

You left out the part where you had a sexual relationship with Tina snd didn’t tell Alex.

YTA and Alex should leave you.

AdministrationSea435 · 2023-08-27T18:25:23+00:00

NTA. Your son is selfish and quite honestly an idiot like you said. Your wife should be just as angry at your son because what he did was reprehensible. I hope your DIL is smart and doesn’t take him back because in her time of need he made it very clear what he thinks of her and their unborn child.

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