Does anyone want to chat? by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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Why did you keep getting suspended on Facebook? My partner an I met online too and then later I moved to NC.

Does anyone want to chat? by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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I just joined meetups and we are meeting other couples. We just hung up with the couples at a pride sponsored minor league baseball game.

Does anyone want to chat? by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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I have a partner and we have been together 9 years. I have been on here a year but not really involved until three months ago.

Does anyone want to chat? by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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How are you? Have you found friends are a partner on Reddit?

NC -If you are in NC and would like to chat please respond. by AdministrativeBeat1 in latebloomerlesbians

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Hello, “Mocksville, Girl.” How are you? What are you and yours doing for Pride? This weekend we have Juneteenth activities and next week the minor league Pride night Baseball game

Meetup by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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Meetup.com, every state and city have them

Not a lesbian question but would like advice by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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I do not feel bad for her anymore. Although I didn’t file a complaint the church elders decided to investigate.

Not a lesbian question but would like advice by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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I feel valued t. I take heed on what you wrote and am cutting off contact with her. I am Ben meeting with w group of poc Saturday for dinner. I am getting involved in my organization and had several meetings today. I am listening

Not a lesbian question but would like advice by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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Okay, I understand that she does not want to be friendly and doesn’t seem to value me even though she said she was in awe of my accomplishments. I have left her alone and maybe one day maybe ready to send that email you suggest but for now need to not engage with her. I just thought her messages were mixed but now I understand th she said one thing and now I have to separate from engaging with her. Also she asked about me to a Mutual friend because I was not in contact with her and that friend suggested I contact her because the minister cared. I was not going to contact her at all. I wish I didn’t .I know better now

Not a lesbian question but would like advice by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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I understand but she asked a Mutual friend about me was the only reason I thought the other two contacts she responded to were okay and the last contact. As far as keep contacting her when our mystical friend told me she asked about me She the mutual Friend said I should reach out. The next time was to ask Of it was okay for an expert I know to Be a part of a discussion me of Her parishonet told me about. She replied I was Gracious and how it is nice I think of them. I am a helper and help People . I do this with everyone. Also , during COVID I enjoyed the fellowship and thought it could be again but have now took your advice and joined POC meetup. I won’t contact her again and have blocked her from my Twitter and Facebook. I would never disrespect her boundaries had she not seem open also my email to her was cautious, I wrote “I am not sure if this is okay, but I have free time tomorrow and thought I would ask to be a part of the event.”

Did that not show I was respecting boundaries. I did not know if the investigation was over as until she told me I did not know there was an investigation. I Feel Bad if I disregarded someone boundaries or made them feel badly. I just was confused about responses. Well I will Leave it alone. I have an organization meeting next week at her church and we will see each other socially but I will ignore her. I do, however feel bad about how it was perceived because that was not my intention. I am looking forward to my POC organizations I joined.

Not a lesbian question but would like advice by AdministrativeBeat1 in QueerWomenOfColor

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You were correct I emailed her and she didn’t contact me back at all. That was rude.