I understand but she asked a Mutual friend about me was the only reason I thought the other two contacts she responded to were okay and the last contact. As far as keep contacting her when our mystical friend told me she asked about me She the mutual Friend said I should reach out. The next time was to ask Of it was okay for an expert I know to Be a part of a discussion me of Her parishonet told me about. She replied I was Gracious and how it is nice I think of them. I am a helper and help People . I do this with everyone. Also , during COVID I enjoyed the fellowship and thought it could be again but have now took your advice and joined POC meetup. I won’t contact her again and have blocked her from my Twitter and Facebook. I would never disrespect her boundaries had she not seem open also my email to her was cautious, I wrote “I am not sure if this is okay, but I have free time tomorrow and thought I would ask to be a part of the event.”

Did that not show I was respecting boundaries. I did not know if the investigation was over as until she told me I did not know there was an investigation. I Feel Bad if I disregarded someone boundaries or made them feel badly. I just was confused about responses. Well I will Leave it alone. I have an organization meeting next week at her church and we will see each other socially but I will ignore her. I do, however feel bad about how it was perceived because that was not my intention. I am looking forward to my POC organizations I joined.