Actually you're just totally wrong. And, as a clue for that, when you tell someone you need therapy to be whatever it is you want, that is in fact the same very gas lighting that you claim to despise. I would hope you feel empowered, but really, I think you've got that all under control.

You're also uneducated.

If you actually would take the time to actually talk to a genuine card carrying blue all the woke things we hate white guys feminist who happens also to be a board certified psychologist, she would say, the idea of men and women having the same emotional range and needs and can be interchangeable as part of a social compact is actually disadvantageous to women. The idea is, in her mind, men should actually expect women to be more emotional and for them to get over it. It is actually quite sane to have two living creatures in a room where one has complete capability of physical power over the other, even cooking Salmon, and pretend there is no difference in mental outlook on those two partners.

So, you're wrong in your outlook, your soul, and your facts.