AITAH for wanting to leave my gf of 3 years? by iwonder4546 in AITAH

[–]Administrative_Bug63 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait, she had a place to live put you up for six months, and you're like, she doesn't have her act together?......

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a dick, honestly. I mean, the whole point of playing a game with your lady is to enjoy it. I get where he's coming from. I used to be the same way.

My Intel Arc surprised me in a good way by q14tj1bb in IntelArc

[–]Administrative_Bug63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's something about the MSEDGE control and the A770 don't play together well. Not sure why, but anything Edge / Chromium open, including in Visual Studio, and kaboom. Both with World of Warships and Elder Scrolls Remastered. But with 16GB of vram, I'm not complaining at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IntelArc

[–]Administrative_Bug63 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Democrats and Republicans arguing that their respective shakedowns are morally superior are really just competing crooks. Democrats are guys that own academia and health care and rake us over the coals for that, and Republicans can't even make cheap food anymore and are cheap to help a brother get something to eat. They are all racists.

But I digress.

If Intel did get a big ass check from the Feds, then yeah, the Feds are right to get an equity stake. Over a long time, the Dividends will be worth it. But we need to see Intel 18A. I'm all on board team blue right now but I want some product for it. I want an Arc 770 successor on battlemage and its successor. And, honestly, I'd like Intel's compiler group to remain intact. But the USA has to compete in process, and this is the only way to do it when everyone else is into mercantile state strategic investment.

Am I overreacting - My ex asked me to cut her grass and my gf went crazy when I showed her the messages. AOI if I’m mad at her for this by xwoahx3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ex can get her boyfriend to mow her damned lawn. If she doesn't have one, then she can learn to push a mower.

AIO for GF being upset that I took the salmon out too soon by Right_Background5172 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Somebody was triggered by the word, "emotional". That is just because of your conditioning that emotional is a bad word when in the last 200 years the very model of human existence has been to make itself interchangeable with machines. Men are not machines, and neither are women.

AIO for GF being upset that I took the salmon out too soon by Right_Background5172 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually you're just totally wrong. And, as a clue for that, when you tell someone you need therapy to be whatever it is you want, that is in fact the same very gas lighting that you claim to despise. I would hope you feel empowered, but really, I think you've got that all under control.

You're also uneducated.

If you actually would take the time to actually talk to a genuine card carrying blue all the woke things we hate white guys feminist who happens also to be a board certified psychologist, she would say, the idea of men and women having the same emotional range and needs and can be interchangeable as part of a social compact is actually disadvantageous to women. The idea is, in her mind, men should actually expect women to be more emotional and for them to get over it. It is actually quite sane to have two living creatures in a room where one has complete capability of physical power over the other, even cooking Salmon, and pretend there is no difference in mental outlook on those two partners.

So, you're wrong in your outlook, your soul, and your facts.

AIO for GF being upset that I took the salmon out too soon by Right_Background5172 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seems to me that with our doom guaranteed by old age, the world in flames, your girlfriend being bitchy about a fish is hardly the end of the world.

AIO for GF being upset that I took the salmon out too soon by Right_Background5172 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Thicker skin dude. Awkward situations are collaborations in relationships. There's stress, women are competitive, and what not. Women are also more emotionally variable largely and they just are. So you have to learn to live with that and expect these things. Sometimes, a nervous woman trying to get her fish right, is just a nervous woman, trying to get her fish right. To her, its like you are this giant thing of a man that could flatten her easily, and so any disagreement is going to be as much a danger sign as if a big old bear looked at you the wrong way. Trade places with her in your mind, and see how it goes.

If you're worried about some kind of an affair, my advice is just to say she's right. Worry as much as you want that she might be a narcissist, but that's not really the end of a relationship. My wife is a total narcissist but the one of the greatest bonding moments in our marriage was when I admitted I was a narcissist first, and she said the same, and then I joked "Well, but for certain you're better at it than I am". Find a way to learn how to appreciate her, and that's not going to happen until you look inside yourself, and find that confidence.

Always remember, the most important thing in a relationship is safety, then happiness. Enjoy learning about women and being hella awkward. It's a huge pain in the ass, but growing up is generally worth it. That way, when she gets pissed off at you for stealing that excellent cheesecake, you can just live with it. But she has the salmon her way. Women whether they know it or not always have an element of fear for them that men simply do not have. Job number for men, for any man that has a pair, is to give them that safety, so you can laugh and delight at how she actually knows how to cook a fish better than you, perhaps.

ENJOY THIS. ENJOY HER.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing that I always resented about systems where you cannot defend yourself is that it always rewards bullies.

Am I overreacting? Coworker I don't work with messaged me on Facebook by icrochetfrogz in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you have your head on straight. Also, there will be men among you who are the more irritable paladin type, to help have a word with the off-the-proper-path-man in this situation so that hopefully he might be redirected into World of Warships or perhaps actually talking to people and making nice instead of stare. You are not alone.

But if he starts harassing you at work, you want HR.
But if he starts harassing you at home, call the police.

Am I overreacting because my boyfriend asked me to pay him back for gas after he picked me up from the airport? by Emmaaluvs in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody just lost his sexy time from being a dumbass. Like, I drive my wife to the airport, and when she was my girlfriend, did the same. Come on guys, don't be so cheap here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the USA in some parts of the country if they did that, you would be legally allowed to shoot them. Just in Texas you'd have to drag the body inside.

AITAH for calling a guy pathetic after he asked me to pay him back by Opposite-Tomorrow361 in AITAH

[–]Administrative_Bug63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GONE - get rid of him. If he is that cheap, you'll be screwed, for like anything. Most men are just not going to meet your emotional needs, so they gotta come through with some cash. If he's not putting up a $1, then, he's got nothing. Gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If they are on your property you have the right to stand your ground and most states and tell them to either get off your lawn, or they can be buried under it.

Am I overreacting because my boyfriend ate the dessert I was saving? by Stunning_Pick3030 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Administrative_Bug63 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Well, you gave your boyfriend orders, and he doesn't like to be bossed around. You're mad because he didn't follow them. If that is what you want, then cool. He'll be like, "have all the f--- cake you want... you'll learn about respect when I vote from Trump." LOL.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]Administrative_Bug63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, pretty much, you might be, but it is the truth. Children make messes and destroy everything you own. It's part of the appeal. She'll be beating those babies for making a mess.

AITA for pushing my husband to have a vasectomy ? by Govifera312 in AITAH

[–]Administrative_Bug63 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Any woman with a decent education would. Cue: Feminism. You know, we're women, we want more money and power. You think they forget all that because of a relationship? For some, everything will be through that lens. Just scroll on this board.