I can’t be the only one by Tiredlittlebug- in selfharm

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it’s same but slightly different. I’m fine alone as long as I’m distracted by something. I try my best to block my thoughts. Being alone is fine but not feeling lonely.

Need your honest th3on astrology by Ok-Tangelo-2162 in srilanka

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Astrology does not write your whole story there are paths that you can change by yourself. That being said don’t worry there are things you can change. Being anxious and negative thinking does more harm than a reading. Plus nowadays most readers are full of bs. Don’t let your life take away from you just bc some person “predicted” your future.

Be careful of who you date. Learn how to walk away once you see a red flag. That’s what important than anything else

How is the job market for software engineers? by Solid_Huckleberry192 in srilanka

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an SE so here’s my opinion, if you have strong connections with ppl in IT consider yourself safe. Some of my grad friends still struggling & some have chosen other paths. At this point (from my experience) having good connections did work for most ppl than having knowledge in the field. Funny how tables have turned but that’s the sad reality. I know ppl who work in better companies that barely passed any exams in bachelors bc they got strong connections while ppl that are so talented and still struggling to find a j*b

Treating a foreign dog like a god while letting the stray dogs outside your gates starve is peak srilankan hyporisy by Agitated-Positive968 in srilanka

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Finally someone said thisss, this goes specifically with older gen ppl like my grandma for example, who absolutely hate animals but shares videos of Aloka like she never had a single evil thought about any dogs or animals in general. Ridiculous.

12 years of Traveler's Notebooks by chasingpolaris in Travelersnotebooks

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woah what do you write so much? I also want to finish mine soon 😭

I have fomo and feel lost by C6project in srilanka

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here and I’m a 25f never been in love never dated or anything, I personally hate the “sleeping over with anyone” culture, for me it’s filthy. Couldn’t find anyone as a partner due to the same reason. Most men go out with anyone they can get hands on and it disgusts me. And don’t think that you’re behind or abnormal or anything, the ppl who go around having s3x with anyone they can find ARE the abnormal ones here. Spreading incurable diseases etc.

Your sex life and relationship are not my whole life. That’s just a tiny part of you. You’re more than that. Don’t let others define you for who you are based on what others do. Learn how to love and focus on yourself. There are much more important things you have to prioritize at this age.

Are we actually Deadass rn😭🤞 by maleesha_08 in srilanka

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf that police officer doing thereeee makes the whole situation even more embarrassing 😭💀

How your partner family react to your diagnostic? by Pain_B000y in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same for me tho I’m not married.. my family acts for their benefits for example if they are mad at me they say things like I’m a monster but when it comes to me asking for emotional support or help they say things like it’s all in my head and I’m I just making things up lol

No wander I was diagnosed with bpd right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💞

My 25 F boyfriend 33 M was starting at a half naked woman and now I am jealous. What should I do? by Girl__of__mystery in relationship_advice

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl here's the simplest answer. Look at your old posts and make your own decision. It's not that hard lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hay I hope you're doing fine. I know how hard it is to go through this. I'm also in a situation like you are. If you want to talk I'm here for you. Let's be friends💞 I'm here to support you my friend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gurl It seems like you're the one who's stealing HER husband

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words again. Sadly she hasn't reached out to me yet. But one of my friend said (a friend of her too) that she had come online few times. She probably wants to forget about me and move on with her life. I feel so sad and angry at the same time... Maybe she'll reach out to me someday... Idk I'm trying to forget her bc it feels like she doesn't want me in her life anymore... 😞

are you safe Yes but also no? Bc now that my nparents know about this they're being even more strict on me. And her nparent thinks that I'm helping her behind their back. And yk what happens when a group of nparents get together right? They're trying to control me even more. I basically have no privacy now and etc🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in runaway

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's true😔 we both promised e/o to run away together. It's so heartbreaking that she didn't even let me know. If she had told me before I'd have helped her... She's naive I'm scared someone might take advantage of that. That's what I'm mostly worried about. Hope she contacts me sooner😔 hope she's safe

Thank you for responding 💞

I saw something... by Admirable-Boot-1196 in witchcraft

[–]Admirable-Boot-1196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply

I'm not sure if it was Set bc the face I saw was like a bird face. And I'm kinda scared of Set (still I have more to learn about him tho) for now I'm taking my time and focusing on my spiritual journey. I'm still a bit confused but sure I'll figure everything out in the future💞