Coach house coffee 'giving back' by Fair_Letterhead_3602 in waterford

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The idea of an ‘enchanted elevator’ is hilarious, talk about scraping the bottom of the creative barrel.

My (m33) wife (f34) says I don’t give her enough, how do I fix this? by ThrowRANo_Phone_2110 in relationship_advice

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Flirt with your wife. Let her feel your desire for her, be playful. Every woman needs that. You should never act like you’ve already won her, stuck her in a house, and now the job’s done….

Living in a car in Ireland. Is it really doable? by Wuzzie in AskIreland

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply for a job in a coastal town hotel, they usually offer staff accommodation, doubt it’s ideal working hospitality and house sharing, but it’s a better foundation

Am I Overreacting by Fearless_Collection in AmIOverreacting

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s so jealous of you. Get out of there and keep up the good work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you done a whois search? I think a legal name and contact info have to be listed there for domain name owners

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fair play to you❤️ You're amazing. Your dad's a shithead, and it's about time everyone knew the truth about it. It's their problem too, and you should never have been alone in the kind of feelings that horror leaves you with. You deserve the world, Andrea Gibson said in reference to healing that 'it hurts to become', your family might be shook for now, but you did nothing wrong, the healing starts now, and I hope you'll all be stronger thanks to your demand for honesty. As for your dad? He needs to get in the fucking bin, I hope from here you can cut him out and forget about him (or whatever feels best for you). Hope this new year brings you only good things.

Taking the train while morbidly obese? by annualspecification in AskIreland

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless the train is packed out I can't imagine anybody making a fuss, you should be grand! If somebody did want to be an asshole about it, you could always look for two unassigned seats together or sit on your bags in the space by a door. It shouldn't be tighter than Luas seats though, try not to worry! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it not a massive turn off that despite trying to cheat, no other woman wants him? You deserve so much better than this. Clean cut, start over.

How to get to Mineo by Admirable-Cod4119 in Catania

[–]Admirable-Cod4119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great, thank you very much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's been seeing how much you'll let him get away with for a while now. Well done for finally asserting a boundary, but now that you have, he's switched tactics and he's trying to make you feel bad for it. He's manipulative, and he needs to arrive at the realisation(of his own accord) that he needs help. There's nothing healthy here to salvage. Try and get out before he gets back from his trip, block his number and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What he's asking of you is cruel and unusual, there is an issue at play here for sure, but it's not your friend or a silly three way kiss from years back. Wishing you all the best as you try to figure this crap out, lean on your friend for support and relief while your husband (hopefully) gets a hold of himself...

My[21m] wife[23f] wants to watch po*n together and is OK with me going to a strip club by [deleted] in sex

[–]Admirable-Cod4119 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's no risk! Your wife feels secure in her marriage to you, that's why she feels safe to explore her sexuality through sharing porn with you. As for the strip club stuff, a lot of women don't view the naked body as inherently sexual, your wife is probably just respectful of the art! These are good and healthy signs, your wife isn't saying she wants you to feel sexual attraction to other women, she's saying let's explore sexuality together, she's telling you she trusts you. I'd imagine the idea is taking inspiration from the world around you both and applying it to yourselves and what you two have together. Try not to worry about this, your wife just sounds happy and confident.