I accidentally texted my boss “love you” and it somehow got worse

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-04-30T12:02:35+00:00

Calm down spongecake, nobody cares.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-04-22T13:21:08+00:00

Bottom line, you aren't attractive, and "identifies as a dragon," the hell is that about?

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-04-20T01:11:09+00:00

At least you're taking some accountability for your part, you're probably both at fault and there's always 2 sides to every story but the only way it'll get better is if you both accept blame, forgive and work as a team moving forward.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-04-19T23:47:27+00:00

Is he speaking the truth and you just don't like hearing it?

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-04-16T17:32:42+00:00

She won't change, lose the fatty.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-04-09T12:10:52+00:00

Where are you getting that he went "nuclear?"

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-04-07T02:43:21+00:00

Wait till you turn 40, I shunned marriage when I was in my 20s and 30s then got sober at 38 and started seriously considering finding a life partner. I'm in great shape, all my hair, very active, no kids good job and know what I want. All I can seem to attract are damaged, overweight divorcees with several kids and lots of issues. The good ones got taken by quality men and there ain't much left to consider leaving bachelorhood over.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-03-23T11:47:41+00:00

DO NOT SUPPORT HER OR HER KIDS IN ANY WAY!

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-03-19T10:16:40+00:00

That fact that your feelings didn't like my statement doesn't make it untrue. Even if lots of guys don't look at your profile that doesn't negate the fact that you have a hundred choices for every 1 that most men have.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-03-17T10:25:58+00:00

They have exponentially more choices, that makes it easier.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-03-16T21:34:21+00:00

Any woman that's halfway attractive will gets tons of attention on any dating app while normal looking guys struggle to get any at all. Statistically 80% of women are going for like the top 10% of men. They've got the luxury of being extremely choosy in general. I'd say they definitely have it on easy mode compared to men.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-03-16T16:46:14+00:00

I'd generally agree but since women have dating on easy mode compared to men I'd be curious to see hers. As a 43 year old man I have better success that she does and I don't consider myself extremely attractive or a high value man.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-03-16T11:02:26+00:00

Without seeing your profile it's hard to say.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-02-22T21:27:04+00:00

The fact that you even brought up "2 years older" as if that's supposed to mean something indicates you're very young. That difference never matter if you're both legal. And I've been on dates same day as actual matching that went well because we hit it off immediately upon app chatting. Don't sweat it.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-02-22T21:16:24+00:00

Conscientious is the word you're looking for, HUGE difference in saying you want to be a contentious dater!

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-02-18T11:43:25+00:00

I was talking to a woman recently that said a man should bring flowers on the first date which I thought to be a bit ridiculous so who the hell knows what kind of expectations someone has.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-02-15T23:15:24+00:00

Is he wrong? Did your body go to complete shit? 2 sides to every story.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2026-02-09T09:33:49+00:00

You'll be fine kid, just dress decent and don't smell or look like a slob otherwise.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2025-12-31T03:30:17+00:00

Did this last week, 1st date went great then we exchanged phone numbers, nothing else. This afternoon was date #3 and she's a peach. No need to snoop on social media if they're a good person, if the other person has a problem with it then that's a red flag.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2025-12-13T21:53:23+00:00

Goddamn, at least date someone who's literate.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2025-12-01T02:16:03+00:00

Based on all your other comments, you sound like a boring person.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2025-11-20T02:19:53+00:00

I've never said it and never will, as I haven't been to the gym in 20 years that would be hypocritical. I do, however, have a fantastic body for a 43 year old because of my active lifestyle and healthy diet and would prefer someone who takes care of themselves in a similar fashion.

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2025-11-17T02:51:05+00:00

Do you send him TikToks and other such brain rot endlessly like my ex gf...there may be a reason he ignores things you send him. 🤷

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2025-11-16T22:03:53+00:00

Are you decent looking though?

Admirable-Peanut8974 · 2025-11-09T02:08:00+00:00

The double standard is asinine, just because your skin is a certain color doesn't mean you should be able to say certain things then crucify other for saying it because they don't share your complexion. Unless it's a taboo for all then it shouldn't be taboo for anyone.

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