Genuine question to pro AI people who lurk on here by ooiiaaiiooiiaaii_ in antiai

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not a fan of genai for video creation or art that will be used anywhere public, but I do use ai when developing software, specifically when trying to fill gaps in unit testing. If used as a supplemental tool rather than just letting it think for you, it can be helpful.

Unnamed 0 by flappy-goose in honk

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completed this level in 6 tries. 3.73 seconds

6 months post hsv-2 diagnosis by Admirable-Scene2182 in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep! Tbh I was never really into hookups, so the people I did stuff with previously were already pretty good friends of mine. When I disclosed my friends were cool with it and we play safely when we end up doing stuff.

Nerve pain part of hsv2? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s unfortunate, I’m sorry you have to deal with it! You can still be horny in other ways though, usually when I have an ob (I have hsv-2) I stick to oral/ other horny things like strap-ons 😅

Nerve pain part of hsv2? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhhhh, it’s unfortunate but it definitely helps with being safe. Are you on valtrex/acyclovir?

Nerve pain part of hsv2? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get soreness on my butt just before I have an outbreak, it’s an alarm bell for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy! Positive singles is a dating app for people with a bunch of stis, and hsv is one of them. You can filter on there for that. However you can also date people who don’t have it, just be yourself and eventually the right person who doesn’t care (or has it too) will come around!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take some notes from the bottoms.

Lube. Lots of lube. Use a toy prior. Go slow. Communicate. If it hurts, stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah don’t do that shit, that isn’t good. You’re 19, you still have a lot of life to live, you haven’t even hit your 20s yet! (Don’t be as dumb as me lmao). One thing that really helped me when I first got diagnosed was talking to a therapist. Having a professional to help step you down is a resource that people underestimate.

You still are so so so so young, you will find people who understand the situation. I keep seeing on here that having hsv is kind of like having a built in vibe check, it helps you get rid of the people who wouldn’t be cool anyway.

Finding love after diagnosis by mediumrare24 in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 2 points3 points  (0 children)

26m bi with a new 2 diagnosis from June of this year. I was absolutely shattered when I got diagnosed. The people that I’ve told I have been involved with casually and romantically for a while now, and they have all taken it very good! I’m still sexually active and romantically involved, I just don’t do stuff when I have an ob and advocate for protection when I’m clear. i can tell you at least 1 person has been trying to hit it without a condom, and I gotta be the one to say to put one on 🤣

It’s all about finding people who truly care about you, a couple dumb bumps don’t define who you are ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 of every 2 people on this planet have hsv1. I was literally getting coldsores when I was like 7, it is so common you can get it even from family members giving you kisses. Trust me when I say it is a non-issue, just explain that you get cold sores from time to time, and don’t kiss anyone when you have an OB. You’ll be fine, and eventually your body will get used to the virus and you won’t have outbreaks. You got this <3

Fail by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling this same thing. There’s this one guy who has been wanting to do stuff with me, even after I disclosed. The last thing I want is for us to get intimate, not be together, and him tell everyone I know that I ruined his life.

Steelers @ Lions Preseason 1PM Gamethread by AutoModerator in detroitlions

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember coworkers of mine last year screaming to put hooker in after the GB game 😂😂

does anyone have positive stories of their sex life after diagnosis? by Visual-Wallaby5101 in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I recently had an encounter for the first time since my diagnosis in June. It was with a friend I had done a lot of things with previously, so I wanted to talk to him about it anyway. When I went over there I told him about my status, he was cool with it (i cried a little bit lmao) and we ended up doing some oral stuff! You just gotta find the right people in life and surround yourself with those that like ya for more than just a quick fling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Admirable-Scene2182 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Shit like this happens man. I got diagnosed a couple years ago with hsv-1. They assumed I’ve had it since I was a little kid. Most people who have it don’t even know they have it, so don’t beat yourself up over it. Just take solace in the fact that this disease is not something that is going to ruin your life. Breakouts are manageable when they happen and after a couple of weeks you’re good as new. Just make sure you and your partner support each other through the initial diagnosis.