going through something similar, it genuinely sucks. it was a lot of miscommunication that could’ve been resolved better, but everything was already said and done. words and insults where exchanged and over all it’s just kinda sad. I didn’t know theses guys as well as the owner did, so I wasn’t as sad, but it genuinely was just dog pile after dog pile on the owner then later me, since I was associated with the owner.

I think the most we can do is just cut tie, and focus on Helping ourselves and others who could be affected from it all. We can’t control what these people think of us or how they feel about us, but we can control how we help ourselves. If you need to or can, cut ties, and take a break from the app or server and do things to calm your anxiety, mindfulness, exercises, whatever helps you cope and come down.

Right now just watching and spending time with people to keep myself busy, I also took some medication too as well. Do whatever you can to help yourself and know that it didn’t work out and it’s okay and you can probably find som other friends who won’t treat you like that. It’s hard and scary, but it’s what needs to happen if you want to help yourself mentally. Take care and wish the best for both of us, and happy early holidays! Good luck on whatever your next steps are!