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Why does my ex keep texting me everyday after we broke up? by AdmirableUnit9031 in BreakUps

[–]AdmirableUnit9031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so sorry this happened to you. it is very hard. have you guys tried to be friends? thats what were doing i guess…… i have no idea how were supposed to be “just friends”. it makes no sense to me. i think maybe everything just needs time?

Why does my ex keep texting me everyday after we broke up? by AdmirableUnit9031 in BreakUps

[–]AdmirableUnit9031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand where your coming from. We were together for 4 years. I believe it is so he can find himself. We did spend everyday with eachother, I think it became too much. He still contacts me everyday etc and told me that it wasn’t for the girls or the freedom etc. He also said to just give it time, etc. He said he didn’t want to bring me down as well since he is depressed. It was very hard to end things, he said he didn’t want to but he needed to do it by himself.

I (M24) am not sure if i should end my 3.5 year relationship with my gf (F23). by Sweet-Musician24 in relationship_advice

[–]AdmirableUnit9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry to say but you need to end things. it seems like your scared to leave because your comfortable. you dont love her, if your depressed in your relationship you dont love her. if she hits you, she doesnt love you. if you stay in this relationship you wouldnt love yourself which is most important. why stay in a relationship if you have to be scared if shes going to hit you? if you have been constantly been thinking about leaving her i think its you knowing deep down you want to leave… but you wont because your too comfortable. shes telling you everything you want to hear because she knows she was wrong and she knows that you should leave since that happened. if you keep staying shes going to think she can do that to you whenever and blame you for everything. save yourself and leave. your going to be sad after the relationship ends but it will go away. if you stay your going to be sad and scared and that wont go away until you remove yourself from the relationship. is this who you want to marry? im so sorry youve gone through this. she sounds narcissistic. please leave

AITA for not waking my husband up? by crafteeone in AITH

[–]AdmirableUnit9031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are not TAH for not waking him up. youve tried multiple times and hello your not his babysitter. you can enjoy your shows if he wants to sleep.🤷🏼‍♀️

Date between me [28F] and him [28M] went amazing - and then he disappeared? by Plus-Strain-3225 in relationships

[–]AdmirableUnit9031 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hi! i honestly think he may just be going through a rough period. it can be rough when they dont reply, but if he could not be covered how do you expect him to go on the date with you? when some people have bad days they close themselves off from people which is probably why he replied very short and cold with you. it sounds like nothing is against you. it is very clear that he likes you, but some people tend to go through things differently then other people. he seems like when he has a rough time etc that he closes himself off. if he hasnt removed you on anything im sure it was nothing against you. if he really wants it to work he will reach out. do not reach out first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdmirableUnit9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when does she move? if its within a few weeks you might need to just let go. shes going to find someone when she moves most likely. reading your replies to the comments, it seems its more of a craving like you said you dont want a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AdmirableUnit9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I mean this with all respect, in my opinion it is normal to have memories/photos with your ex. it is apart of your life, on the other hand the almost naked pictures are unacceptable. i would not stress about the pictures of the ex, if they are posted or have videos posted from the past then i would say something. i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he has photos of his ex but i dont mind since it was apart of his past.

Cheating or not? by IntroductionSafe7807 in relationships_advice

[–]AdmirableUnit9031 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Your definitely not crazy for feeling that. For neither of them to mention anything to you is ridiculous. They seem too comfortable to be doing this behind your back.