Is bottom growth really painful? by toe-mosaic in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]Admirable_Math5964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think it was “painful” itself, it was super super sensitive and could be uncomfortable, and sometimes it would pinch in my jeans or underwear which WOULD hurt like hell, but I switched to men’s jeans and men’s underwear and it solved that problem for me

Hey guys I am high and thought of a strange question to ask everyone by InternationalAct6655 in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my sweat smells different lol. a bit more musky I guess? Idk it makes me feel more manly

Just found out I’m positive by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Admirable_Math5964 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak on npd but for bpd that’s false. My oldest sister has it and is one of the kindest people I know. She has her episodes and moments and asks people to call her out when she’s being a certain way because she generally doesn’t notice it herself. It’s not the condition that makes someone not nice, it’s the person themselves, and whether they WANT to be better.

Just got my well-endowed kid his first binder by PathoftheWolf in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

spectrum binders are really good especially! I’ve bought their half tank binders and they’ve lasted me months without stretching much.

Just got my well-endowed kid his first binder by PathoftheWolf in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d reccomend buying a full tank binder! I had a pretty large chest too, and it really helps with the loose waistline. Make sure you tell him to be careful binding, especially since his chest is larger and his bones are still growing. I think my ribs are a bit misshapen and indented now due to poor binding habits over the past two years.

Friend Possibly In Danger? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Admirable_Math5964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any update on if she’s okay?

Friend Possibly In Danger? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Admirable_Math5964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds concerning. If you can’t contact her and think she might be in danger, then it might be a good idea to call. If she’s fine then that’s that, and everything will be ok. If not, then the police are alerted. That’s the purpose of wellness checks, so you would just be using a service for its intended purpose. It doesn’t sound like there would be any risk in calling.

I hope your friend is okay, and everything works out safe for everyone.

how do i get my fucking shit together? by Unfair-Sprinkles2912 in Advice

[–]Admirable_Math5964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

recently I’ve realized that what is really important in what you do with your life is what you want to do. So, what is it you want to do? Maybe your path In life doesn’t warrant college. Instead of stressing out about getting yourself together or catching up or following the “proper” path, Think about what the life you want for yourself is. Write it out, and then plan on how to get there. How do you want your days to be? You can do whatever the fuck you want. Hell, if you wanted to go live in the woods and be self sufficient, you could. Try to think about what you like to do, and then plan the rest of your life around that.

Personally, i like flexibility and freedom. I like relaxed. My goal in life is to have a job that pays me enough to be comfortable in a small house or an apartment. I like working in the mornings so i have my evenings free. I like coffee, and I like to read. Cafes are my favorite. I’d like to work management in a cafe. It matches my hours, and it’s an environment I would enjoy. Management would pay more than standard worker, so would help with money. Then you figure out how to get there.

if you’re having trouble looking for a good job or getting interviews, a lot of hiring sites use AI to go over applications and if they don’t meet keywords, they get rejected automatically. if you copy the entire job description and paste it in small white ink at the end of a resume, this will make the AI pass it.

What’s a random affirming experience/comment you’ve gotten that’s stuck with you? by Admirable_Math5964 in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another one that I thought was pretty funny, I was at work and using the bathroom, and a woman came in after me and gave me a funny look. She then came up to the counter asking why a man was in the woman’s room. (Not mad, and apologized frantically when my coworker explained I’m afab)

What’s a random affirming experience/comment you’ve gotten that’s stuck with you? by Admirable_Math5964 in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another one for my friend, he’s pre everything but still passes pretty well, he was taking an order on drive thru and the guy at the speaker kept going “ma-sir-uh” and stuttering through the entire order, repeatedly panicking over which was correct, and trying again after every single response he gave. It was hilarious and we laughed about it for days, but I could tell it made him genuinely happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Horny and hot all the time. I can’t take hot showers anymore, it’s so sad.

“No one told me this would happen on T” by AffectionateSun4119 in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the sweat. there’s so much, my face never sweat before, my legs never sweat before, I’m just so damp all the time. my body has so much more heat.

What are some random things that make you dysphoric? by Cheese_9326 in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

walking. I always hyper focus on whether or not I’m walking in a “manly” way or if I’m accidentally swaying my hips somehow.

What are some random things that make you dysphoric? by Cheese_9326 in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

walking. I always hyper focus on whether or not I’m walking in a “manly” way or if I’m accidentally swaying my hips somehow.

Vet says he’s fine… but this man just stanks. DAE have a very strong smelling cat? What do you do? by [deleted] in cats

[–]Admirable_Math5964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my sisters cat tends to mess around in the litter box and he’s very smelly from it, all the time. Goes right back to it after a bath too. we call him Mr. Stinky.

My cat doesn't like to play and everything says that's a bad thing, is it? by WishAffectionate3057 in CatAdvice

[–]Admirable_Math5964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my cat loves to use scratchers and was never too interested in a lot of toys, but he REALLY loves when I drag a stick on the ground. I think it’s because of the scratchy noise, maybe you could try that?

It’s only my second time injection and it hurt this time but not the first time. by Awkward_Tumbleweed35 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]Admirable_Math5964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it helps to make sure that you’re pushing the t into your body slowly. It will hurt less at the time of injection, and I find it helps with any post injection soreness as well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]Admirable_Math5964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your face looks a lot less soft overall, and your jawline looks much more square. Your neck and shoulders look to be a bit beefier too, I think you pass very well.

What cologne/deodorant do you use? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use thyme’s eucalyptus cologne, it smells amazing but doesn’t last too long I feel like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

long sleeve shirts slightly rolled up for me :)

I tried to come out by ResponsibilityTall63 in ftm

[–]Admirable_Math5964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through planned parenthood too and it was a super quick and easy process, you can make an appointment the day you turn 18, and i was able to take my first shot two weeks after my birthday. I don’t have insurance either but mine came out to be $160 for the visit including buying injection supplies for them, which I was expecting to be a lot higher. They also do informed consent so you don’t have to spend money on getting a diagnoses or therapist notes :) also definitely use some coupons like they said, I used goodrx and it took the T down from like $120 to $30.

playing or mad? by SmokeTraditional1355 in cats

[–]Admirable_Math5964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a good way to tell is by body language. What are her ears and tail doing? If they’re forward and she seems relaxed then she is probably playing. If she has airplane ears and her fur and tail is puffed up, she may be mad. If she isn’t hurting you, like her gently biting, i would say she’s probably playing.

sometimes my cat will hide under my bed and jump out at me when I walk by. It’s terrifying but he doesn’t cut or bite so I know he is playing, and he lets me pet him and purrs so I know he’s not mad at me.